This is harder to answer than I thought it would be. It's not any one thing, I don't think. We've always been pretty open to trying anything once, whether we planned it before we went to the bedroom or it was spontaneous. Some have worked out better than others, but no one instance is standing out more or less than another.
That's how we got into swinging. We got into a rut and wanted something different but had not yet found the world of toys. A search pulled up a swinging group fairly close to us so we joined and started attending functions. It has had its ups and downs but overall has been very enjoyable.
Well, we started fantasy. Interracial, involving a black man. We have discussed actually taking that step............but hasn't happened..........yet.
I was having a fantasy lately, nothing too wild, but I decided I wanted to try to live it out. My wife and I watch some porn, and we've both been turned on by scenes with girls and two guys. I mentioned to her one night that I might want to try something sort of roleplay, sort of submissive for her. The rest I kept to myself. She was curious what I had on my mind, but said she would play along.
This weekend I asked her if she wanted to give it a shot. She said yes and headed to start her nightly shower. I pulled out her hitachi, a few of her favorite silcone dildos, and a few straps and blindfold from our light bondage kit. I threw my favorite fishnet bodystocking into the bathroom for her. When she came out with it on, I quickly put the blindfold on her and led her to the bed. I had her sit up in the middle of the bed on her knees, and we started kissing. I then told her lick her fingers and rub her clit. After she started to get wet, I laid on my back and briefly gave her oral. It was time for me to work in the fantasy.
I got up from the bed with her still on her knees. I walked to our bedroom door and lightly knocked on it and cracked the door. This kind of freaked her out and she took off the blindfold and turned around. I calmed her and put the mask back down. I stood up on the bed beside her and before she could turn to give me a blowjob, I held up a dildo and asked her to suck on it. She was into it, and it was hot! I told her to suck on me, then back to the dildo, and then both while she stroked. She went back to focusing on me, so I reached down as far as I could to start rubbing her pussy with the dildo. She still had the bodystocking and blindfold on, and I was extremely turned on. Unfortunately, PE reared it's ugly head, and I could not hold it. I told her I was going to cum and she presented her neck and small, perky breasts.
Lucky for me she was not done! She cleaned up a little, now completely naked, returned to the bed and noticed the straps and hitachi. It was her turn to take control. She secured my wrists, switched on the wand, and pushed it against her pussy. She held it onto my cock, because I usually don't take much time getting a second erection. Not as firm as she wanted, she straddled my face for a minute then grabbed her dildo, laid back to give me a great view and pushed it into herself. She played and kept a close eye on my penis. Once she saw what she was waiting for, she freed me, rolled over and pulled me on top. She came, we swithced to doggie, and surprisingly I couldn't again, but it was a blast!
Even though the fantasy did not completely go as I planned, we both had a wonderful time spicing it up for the night!