after having a baby, two older kids and a lot going on in our household this past year, i can honestly say that things between the missus and me aren't the same. we still love each other and theres still sparks there, attraction and what not. We just lack the timing/ability to be able to get anything going. i mean reallllllly going. so Im trying to figure out if theres anything on here that we can get that might help things a long. we've never dabbled in the games area or anything of foreplay etc. so this is all kind of new to me. was wondering if i could get some help on something that wasn't cheesy, but useful/helpful and fun.