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Have you been in the spot of saying "sure, we can try since YOU want it so bad", or "nope, not going there for anyone, including you"???
I was completely against anal, but because I trusted him and felt comfortable with him, I tried it. It isn't my favorite thing to do, but I am more than happy to do it every now and again. I have put him outside his comfort zone a few times, and shockingly he is warming up to it and has found himself enjoying it. I know it may sound harsh, but I like for my husband to put his hands around my neck, like he is choking me. I get hot just thinking about it. I think you need to be able to give a little to receive a lot. And relationships are all about that, even in the bedroom.