Would you consider something outside your comfort zone if your long term love really wanted to try it?

Bignuf Bignuf
Have you been in the spot of saying "sure, we can try since YOU want it so bad", or "nope, not going there for anyone, including you"???
04/29/2012
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MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
I think it means you are in a healthy and happy relationship if you can bring things up to your partner that may be outside their comfort zone. I would never say no to trying something new. If it doesn't work out, so be it, but at least you had the understanding and decency to give it a whirl!
04/29/2012
Cwhitten006 Cwhitten006
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Have you been in the spot of saying "sure, we can try since YOU want it so bad", or "nope, not going there for anyone, including you"???
I was completely against anal, but because I trusted him and felt comfortable with him, I tried it. It isn't my favorite thing to do, but I am more than happy to do it every now and again. I have put him outside his comfort zone a few times, and shockingly he is warming up to it and has found himself enjoying it. I know it may sound harsh, but I like for my husband to put his hands around my neck, like he is choking me. I get hot just thinking about it. I think you need to be able to give a little to receive a lot. And relationships are all about that, even in the bedroom.
04/29/2012
spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
I would try just about anything with her at least once. As long as it was just the two of us.
04/29/2012
Mistressdead Mistressdead
Well, I think I'd try it at least once with my boyfriend. It's at least worth a try to see if we both like it, or if it's good enough to try repeatedly! I know that so far we both agreed to try anal even though he wasn't really wanting to, but he gave it a go and so far we've loved doing it!
04/30/2012
ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
I would at least try it once unless I thought it was too crazy
05/01/2012
Mamastoys Mamastoys
we have tried new things-sometimes once and sometimes much more, because one or the other wanted to
05/01/2012
indiglo indiglo
We've both explored things outside our normal comfort zones - simply because the other wanted to. Sometimes we find out that we really end up liking it too! We both try to rarely say "no" to each other if we can at all find a way to give it a shot.

Besides, you never know if you'll like something until you try it!
05/01/2012
Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
This is hard to answer. I love my husband so I would never automatically dismiss a request, however there are certain things on my no-list that I can't imagine changing my mind about, EVER. My answer will depend on just how far outside my comfort zone the request is.
05/01/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I would try *almost* anything once, even if it wasn't in my comfort zone. I do have boundaries though, and it would have to only be between the two of us..
05/02/2012
SMichelle SMichelle
I'm willing to try new things for my significant other, even if it's a bit out of my comfort zone.
05/02/2012
bsgs bsgs
anything she wants to try, ill try...who knows, we both might really like it
05/27/2012
TameTemptress TameTemptress
Depends what it is, but I'd be willing to try almost anything he wanted.
05/27/2012
MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
No, but mainly because "out of my confort zone" would be scat play, golden showers, puke play, beastiality, cuckoldry, necrophilia and things that sound like that.
06/08/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
I have soft and hard limits, and I'd be willing to bend on the soft limits
06/09/2012
xilliannax xilliannax
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Have you been in the spot of saying "sure, we can try since YOU want it so bad", or "nope, not going there for anyone, including you"???
Yes
06/10/2012
L&P3040 L&P3040
We just talked about this the other night. I'm willing to try anything once. You never know if you don't try.
06/16/2012
Bex1331 Bex1331
I would try almost everything at least once, especially for him.
06/16/2012
Talena Talena
I have played outside the box, so to speak. You have your limits but as long as it's not going to hurt anyone or anything, I would say step outside the box (even tiptoe at first, if you have to). The worst that can happen is you find something you don't like. The best thing that can happen is you find something you love and another way to completely please yourself and your lover. But if you are stead fast against doing a certain thing, don't feel the pressure that you have to do it. But if your thinking about doing it, then your obviously not steadfast against and give it a whirl.
06/16/2012
ghent529 ghent529
nope i can't try things... sorry
06/16/2012
Beck Beck
Anal was on that list for a long time. Now I beg for it.
06/16/2012
slynch slynch
I'm up for anything with her.
02/09/2013
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