Dating after breaking up

ColorSplash ColorSplash
Is it wrong if you and your ex broke up and after a minute or week time period you start dating someone else?
03/11/2011
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StrawberryEve StrawberryEve
If you're ready to, no. If you're using the other person as a rebound, then no. But you should just be honest.
03/12/2011
moonch1ld moonch1ld
I think it depends greatly on the situation and the person. If it feels right go for it. As strawberry said though, if it's just as a rebound maybe take it slow for a bit so you or someone else doesn't get hurt more.
03/12/2011
Lucidity Lucidity
I agree with what's been said. In these situations it's really important to be honest with everyone involved, especially yourself. It's never good to get into a relationship if you're not truly ready. You can't use another person to get over your ex and expect it to work out.
03/12/2011
LittleBird LittleBird
If you are comfortable with doing it, it is ok. Whatever helps you deal with the pain is ok. There is no manual for break ups, or for dating. Do what makes you happy.
03/24/2011
SoBlue SoBlue
Quote:
Originally posted by ColorSplash
Is it wrong if you and your ex broke up and after a minute or week time period you start dating someone else?
No, everyone heals at different rates, and if you can find someone who makes your heart dance, then go for it
04/01/2011
Taylor Taylor
I think it depends on the situation. I've done this before and it had worked out okay for me, but I had already been pulling back emotionally from the previous relationship a couple months before because I saw that it was going to end anyway.

However I've also jumped into relationships too quickly and it really messed with me emotionally and hurt both of us. You are going to be the best judge as to whether or not you are ready for a new relationship.
04/01/2011
GravyCakes GravyCakes
Quote:
Originally posted by ColorSplash
Is it wrong if you and your ex broke up and after a minute or week time period you start dating someone else?
i don't think it's wrong depending on the situation & how yall felt when you ended it. but you should probably think about why you started dating someone so quickly again, too.
05/09/2011
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