If divorced, do you keep in touch with your ex?

butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
If divorced, do you keep in touch with your ex?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
We are friendly
6  (22%)
No
11  (41%)
Yes, sometimes
4  (15%)
Other
6  (22%)
Total votes: 27
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10/15/2010
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Chilipepper Chilipepper
My divorce hearing is next month.

Still have to keep in touch to divide stuff once I get it out of storage.

Otherwise, we currently pretend the other doesn't exist. Once the stuff is divided he'll be dead to me.
10/15/2010
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Still in the process but seeing as we kept everything so separate, there's nothing to do but file paperwork, and it's easier after the 18 month mark which was last month so I can be rid of him for good now. But no. Aside from two emails, I haven't heard from him in 18 months and I'm fine with that.
10/16/2010
butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
My divorce hearing is next month.

Still have to keep in touch to divide stuff once I get it out of storage.

Otherwise, we currently pretend the other doesn't exist. Once the stuff is divided he'll be dead to me.
I'm so sorry. I wish you the best of luck. Divorces have to be hard! Hope everything is fine.

xoxox
10/17/2010
jdloelo jdloelo
Quote:
Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
If divorced, do you keep in touch with your ex?
Wow I am sorry everyone has had such a bad time with it. My ex and I generally get along great, and if I need anything he usually trys to help out. Of course we have to keep it friendly though, we have two young kids between us. We have just also been great friends, and made bad husband and wife.
11/13/2010
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Quote:
Originally posted by jdloelo
Wow I am sorry everyone has had such a bad time with it. My ex and I generally get along great, and if I need anything he usually trys to help out. Of course we have to keep it friendly though, we have two young kids between us. We have just also ... More
In Tori's and my cases we don't have children with our respective spouses, so we don't have to keep in touch with them once everything is over.

In my marriage, though, it was like having an overgrown child instead of a husband, and it's difficult to have a relationship when one spouse refuses to take any responsibility and work on it like an adult. This also contributed to why we didn't have children.

I was one of those that simply married the wrong person to begin with and thought I had to live with my mistake. Doesn't have to be that way.
11/13/2010
NuMe NuMe
My Ex-husband and I have 2 kids together, so unfortunately, I have to run into him once in a great while at gatherings that my oldest kids have. When he's there I try to be civil. Other than that, I avoid him at all cost.
12/13/2010
dallasw75 dallasw75
I just don't talk with my exwife. Wrong person to marry, didn't figure it out til later. Live and learn.
02/10/2011
sixfootsex sixfootsex
If by "keep in touch" you mean "punch him occasionally"...
02/14/2011
slynch slynch
We are civil. We are in contact only when it involves our daughters. (The kids are early to mid teens)
02/21/2011
Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
In Tori's and my cases we don't have children with our respective spouses, so we don't have to keep in touch with them once everything is over.

In my marriage, though, it was like having an overgrown child instead of a husband, ... More
I'm kind of in this boat. I really want to be the big person and be friends but he has made no effort..
04/14/2011
kelaaa33wish kelaaa33wish
If I was divorced I would hope to keep it civil.
04/14/2011
CarmenGore262 CarmenGore262
Quote:
Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
If divorced, do you keep in touch with your ex?
If there is still a strong friendship bond between the two.
04/14/2011
Peggi Peggi
I stay in contact with the jerk, mostly because I feel sorry for him. That, and he comes to my work a lot, as his mother is my manager (which, by the way, sucks) so I see him there too. He texts me on occasion. He can't get over the 6 years of pushing me around and treating me like crap, apparently, and can't understand why I was able to move on.
10/07/2011
JAPAN JAPAN
If your divorced why bother contacting them or talking with them. That is why your divorced. Too bad for ex married people that has to deal with daddy baby drama or mommy baby drama.
01/02/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My divorce was 25 years ago - I have no idea where she is.
01/02/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
If divorced, do you keep in touch with your ex?
I'm not divorced, but I doubt that I could!
07/18/2012
Total posts: 17
Unique posters: 15