I wish there was an "other" lol it really depends on the partner to me. If that relationship is just all about sex then sometimes toys are just better for me. If it's a real relationship and I'm dating that person and it's more than sex then obviously the partner.
I'm very curious about how many people have more fun playing solo rather then having a partner! I'm sure it maters how much your partner contributes to the fun! It needs be based in your everyday life not fantasies !
My toys are good for when I just need a quick release but I love the passion and overall feeling of sex with my partner.
It really depends on the day and my mood. Sometimes I want to have "alone time" and am not in the mood to be touched by my partner, but on the other hand, some days I want to be touched by my partner or not at all.