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im so scared of anal i heard it hurtss
If you're curious about anal play and it seems you're since you've landed here.
Exploring your body is the first stage, there are many tutorials on the web but the bottom line is:
1. get clean - there are many ways (some use enema, some rely on their healthy bowel movement, etc) you have to decide yourself.
2. get aroused, I mean really aroused. I would recommend to have an orgasm and continue playing with yourself using your hands or a toy.
3. Once you're properly aroused - start teasing your anus with a lubed up finger while masturbating. You will feel sensations and your sphincter muscles will begin to relax and you will feel the proper moment to get inside.
4. Once you have your finger inside go slow (even wait for some minutes to get your anus used to have something inside). Don't go deep at first - penetrate playfully and slowly. You will feel how your body responds and how slow, fast and deep you can go.
5. As you progress you could start with adding another finger and looking for toys. The range is huge and you will figure out if you like girth, vibrations, different materials, etc..
I have compiled some advise earlier in this thread but here are my recommendations again:
The first thing after the finger is something like that: Blush UR3 anal starter – probe
If you catch the UR3 paranoia that some people have here is a silicone alternative: Sedeux Please
I'm sure if you really get into anal and start having intercourse and/or using larger toys or just want to be prepared for the "special" evening. You will want a butt plug and it's nothing better and more universal than My review on the Ryder Butt Plug
Anyway not to repost all the stuff, just scroll a bit up and follow the links.
I hope it was helpful.
Enjoy and never rush!!! It's one of the greatest sexual pleasures...
P.S. And stay off the Randy
for quite some time