I started out with the Jolly Jack as my first butt plug and loved it! I moved up to the Tantus Ryder which is still a little big for me but I love using that as well. I'm really excited to purchase my first njoy steel toy but I'm having a hard decision making a selection. I like the advantage of being able to use something like the wand on both myself and my girlfriend for anal and vaginal stimulation, however I've always seen the plugs and heard how amazing they feel to wear around. What would you recommend and why? Your votes are set to private.