Originally posted by
Red Vinyl Kitty
Not from toys, but my partner is pretty large, and I almost always bleed a tiny bit when we're done having sex. It doesn't matter how much lube, warming up, etc - he just almost always tears me a tiny bit on the way in. :/
Honey, is there a possibility you could have a cervical lesion? I am thinking that your body should probably adjusted to his size by now (I know you two have been together for years) and even with vigorous or rough sex, good lube and warming up should prevent vaginal tearing most of the time. Is it painful every time?
It took me about 2 years to get used to My Man, he's a big boy, too. But, I rarely had tearing, just soreness. (I was also on The Pill, and it made me really dry, even with lube.)
Also, some women have slight uterine bleeding when they have vigorous sex. Some have a few drops of blood if they have sex while they are ovulating. I have this on occasion. Sweetie, you might want to mention it to your GYN the next time you are in to see him or her and see if it is actual tearing or a uterine or cervical issue.