huge turn on. I really like when my partner plays with toys, especially dildos! He doesn't really play with anything large though, I really wish I could get him to enjoy it but I don't want to force or hurt him. I think he's more embarrassed than anything, but he has expressed interest in using one of our larger dildos. When he's in the mood, he likes to use a big one on me, but it doesn't happen very often.