Hysterectomy and toys?

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Hysterectomy and toys?

Ha5aem Ha5aem
Ok I have a question. My wife recently had a hysterectomy she's doing vary well and feeling great but were kind of wondering about sex toys after this deal. We have been using larger toys for about two years long and some are thick. I know, or think the thickness should not hurt her but the long ones may? It's not that important that we use theses toys ever again but we would like to. Does anyone have any experience or knowledge on this topic I've google this and haven't found any info. We know the rule of if it hurts don't do it so... But any input will help.
11/14/2013
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Rossie Rossie
Have you checked the site HysterSisters? It's a Hysterectomy support forum and there's even a section available for husbands to ask questions: Mister HysterSisters.
11/14/2013
Bubba29 Bubba29
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Originally posted by Ha5aem
Ok I have a question. My wife recently had a hysterectomy she's doing vary well and feeling great but were kind of wondering about sex toys after this deal. We have been using larger toys for about two years long and some are thick. I know, or ...
does she like the bigger toys? if she does, she will ask to use them when she feels she is ready. a hysterectomy should not effect penetration play.
11/14/2013
Ha5aem Ha5aem
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Originally posted by Rossie
Have you checked the site HysterSisters? It's a Hysterectomy support forum and there's even a section available for husbands to ask questions: Mister HysterSisters.
Thank you.that site has some good info maybe ill post my question there? I posted it here because this is where we buy most of our toys.
11/14/2013
Ha5aem Ha5aem
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Originally posted by Bubba29
does she like the bigger toys? if she does, she will ask to use them when she feels she is ready. a hysterectomy should not effect penetration play.
Yes she likes the bigger toys very much. She read the post before I sent it and said boy you make me sound like a freak! And laugh LOL.
11/14/2013
Bubba29 Bubba29
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Originally posted by Ha5aem
Yes she likes the bigger toys very much. She read the post before I sent it and said boy you make me sound like a freak! And laugh LOL.
ok, let her give it a go and see how she feels.
11/14/2013
Ansley Ansley
In theory, she should be able to handle them better than ever before. Now that there isn't a cervix to "bottom out" on, she (again, theoretically) should be able to take the toy with ease.

The biggest and most common complaint women have after a hysterectomy is natural lubrication. Be sure to take time to try different lubricants to find what works best for her. (A silicone/water hybrid is probably going to be the best bet.)
11/14/2013
Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by Ha5aem
Thank you.that site has some good info maybe ill post my question there? I posted it here because this is where we buy most of our toys.
I'm sure you'll get some helpful responses if you post your question there, because the respondents will be women who have had a hysterectomy themselves.
11/14/2013
Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
I checked with an RN,(my wife). She said the same as Stormy, that there should be more room now. She also said best to ask her doctor. Difference now might be her mood.
11/15/2013
Ha5aem Ha5aem
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Originally posted by Oriental husband and wife
I checked with an RN,(my wife). She said the same as Stormy, that there should be more room now. She also said best to ask her doctor. Difference now might be her mood.
Thanks to you two and stormy for the input. she wouldn't ever ask her doc! She turns red reading y'all's post. Lol. They left her ovaries so no major mood changes yet. I may ask the doc my self tho.
11/15/2013
edeneve edeneve
I've had a hysterectomy & have only found dryness to be a problem if there isn't enough foreplay w/ a long time partner.
11/18/2013
LilyLust LilyLust
This post was very helpful for me as I may have to have a hysterectomy in the future because of medical reason. Thanks for all the info.
11/20/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Ansley
In theory, she should be able to handle them better than ever before. Now that there isn't a cervix to "bottom out" on, she (again, theoretically) should be able to take the toy with ease.

The biggest and most common complaint ...
Good observations - but I have to say that my experience with silicone/water hybrid lubes wasn't all that good. My review was relatively positive - but over time I grew disenchanted with the performance.
11/21/2013
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