Which of these tantus dildos would you recommend to a beginner/virgin?

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Which of these tantus dildos would you recommend to a beginner/virgin?

marrythenight marrythenight 06/30/2012

Yes, this is my second help-me-choose-a-dildo -cause-they're-on-sale -and-tempting-me-way-t oo-much comparative discussion in 48 hours. Sorry :/

All three of these seem well-suited beginners, though the reviews for the silk line mention anal penetration much more than vaginal, and I am definitely shopping with first-time vaginal penetration (and lots of enjoyable use afterwards!) here.

I appreciate your opinion, input, and advice, so thank you!

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marrythenight marrythenight
Which would you get for a vaginal penetrative n00b?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Compact (Black)
Norma Jeans , Petite Valentine , Ryuson , pasdechat , Melan!e
5
Small silk (Purple)
K101 , unfulfilled , LaSchwartz
3
Silk medium (Lavender)
Dixiemomma , Master DarkWolf , Girly Juice , DreamWolf , SecretKinksters , amazon , Incendiaire , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , bh253 , A.Mari , xMila , ksparkles16 , indiglo , HannahPanda , mistressg , sktb0007 , krystalmarie , Terri69 , winterseve , PeachPunch , MissCandyland , Ghost , G&L , Love Obsessed
24
Forget these and save up them eden points for an Ella, girl.
mpfm , bh253
2
Total votes: 34 (33 voters)
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06/30/2012
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ghalik ghalik
Acute. The ones you listed are really more suited to anal in my opinion.
06/30/2012
Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Silk medium looks suitable...
06/30/2012
Girly Juice Girly Juice
I think you should go with the Silk Medium because it'll take you longer to outgrow it. Try to measure how much girth you're able to handle, though, before making a purchase, so you know it won't hurt you.
06/30/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Silk medium looks suitable...
I think so...
06/30/2012
marrythenight marrythenight
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
Acute. The ones you listed are really more suited to anal in my opinion.
seems like it from the reviews, too. thank you!
06/30/2012
marrythenight marrythenight
Quote:
Originally posted by Girly Juice
I think you should go with the Silk Medium because it'll take you longer to outgrow it. Try to measure how much girth you're able to handle, though, before making a purchase, so you know it won't hurt you.
that's what I was thinking with the medium, too--it would take me longer to outgrow. girth-measuring wise... I have no idea cause I haven't really tried anything more than a few fingers.

thank you everyone who's voted so far!
06/30/2012
Petite Valentine Petite Valentine
I voted for the Compact. It's on the thinner side, but as someone new to penetration I don't think you're quite ready to embrace your inner size-queen. Also, the slight texture and curve (think G-spot) should keep it interesting for longer than either Silk. Too bad the Throb isn't in-stock, I gave that one a 5/5.
06/30/2012
Ryuson Ryuson
Hahaha, half of the toys I have are supposed to be for 'anal use' because I don't like girthy things. If you want something thinner, don't let the size queens out there tell you it's only for anal!

I agree that the Compact would be the best bet because it's thinner and easier to use for g-spot thrusting.
06/30/2012
pasdechat pasdechat
I haven't used any of these, but I'd go with the Compact, since it's got a pronounced head and more of a curve--in my experience, that equals more G-spot stimulation. Also, I agree with Ryuson. I have the Acute, and I love it, but I would not have enjoyed it at all when I was a virgin. The head is pronounced like the Compact's, but the whole toy is thicker, so depending on your anatomy, the head can be uncomfortable upon first insertion; back when I was less used to penetration it would have been downright painful. Plus, he Compact isn't too expensive, so if you do "outgrow" it, it's not like you'll have spent tons of money on something you're not likely to use again.
06/30/2012
marrythenight marrythenight
thanks petite valentine, ryuson, and pasdechat! compact sounds like the best bet for me
06/30/2012
amazon amazon
These are all nice looking
06/30/2012
ksparkles16 ksparkles16
I'd get the medium too You could get the small, but you'll probably want a bigger size soon after
06/30/2012
marrythenight marrythenight
Quote:
Originally posted by ksparkles16
I'd get the medium too You could get the small, but you'll probably want a bigger size soon after
why the medium over the compact? it seems like a lot of people voted that way, too.
06/30/2012
indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by marrythenight
why the medium over the compact? it seems like a lot of people voted that way, too.
I voted the Medium over the Compact because of the Compact's texture. For a first-timer, I think less texture is your best bet. You may end up really loving texture, but smooth is probably safer, especially in the beginning.

You know, now we are going to want a detailed report of which ones you like best! lol I'm really excited for you!
06/30/2012
HannahPanda HannahPanda
I like the medium. Not too big, not too small.
06/30/2012
marrythenight marrythenight
Quote:
Originally posted by indiglo
I voted the Medium over the Compact because of the Compact's texture. For a first-timer, I think less texture is your best bet. You may end up really loving texture, but smooth is probably safer, especially in the beginning.

You know, ...
I definitely plan on doing reviews and pooooosssssibly blogging about it. I just can't decide between the compact and the medium!
07/01/2012
Melan!e Melan!e
I'd go for the Compact of those choices. Have you checked out the Tantus Acute?
07/01/2012
krystalmarie krystalmarie
silk
07/01/2012
K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by marrythenight
Which would you get for a vaginal penetrative n00b?
Fabulous choices! You even reminded me that I need to get off my butt and finally get myself the Tantus Purr! I love everythign I read and see about these. My advice: go small. It doesn't matter if you're a beginner or not, it's about comfort and preference. I prefer medium/average sized toys or else thigns are either too painful or totally impossible. I do think that even I could use the Silk medium though, can't be totally sure, but it looks of a perfect size for someone who wants a decent size, but nothign too large. Don't mark my word though, I don't actually own them. I think I'd go with the small and POSSIBLY the medium though, just to be safe. Now, I need to go purchase Purr before I forget again.

PS. Read some reviews on these you like and maybe that will help.
07/01/2012
Terri69 Terri69
I would get the silk med.
07/01/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I would get silk small.
07/01/2012
marrythenight marrythenight
Quote:
Originally posted by K101
Fabulous choices! You even reminded me that I need to get off my butt and finally get myself the Tantus Purr! I love everythign I read and see about these. My advice: go small. It doesn't matter if you're a beginner or not, it's about ...
thank you! I have been reading reviews on them but most of the silk line reviewers bought them and are using them for anal and just say that it was eh for vaginal and don't really go into detail because that wasn't their intended purpose when they bought it. there are a few who mention that they'd recommend it for beginners/virgins but there have been people who said that for all 3 of them and that's why I'm having such a hard time narrowing them down!

most people say go for the medium but I still like the compact too so I'll keep on reading reviews, then. I'd consider the small more but I'm sure I'd want to move up pretty quickly, but it is the least intimidating.
07/01/2012
PeachPunch PeachPunch
I got bored with the silk in no time at all with vaginal. But it's great for anal!
07/01/2012
MissCandyland MissCandyland
I meant to put get an Ella!!
07/01/2012
G&L G&L
Quote:
Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Silk medium looks suitable...
I agree.
07/01/2012
marrythenight marrythenight
I went with the compact (it's a little thinner and shorter than the silk medium), but I bought it elsewhere because I REALLY wanted another color besides black. I got it in red

oh, and I got the ella in white, too! best of both worlds? yep.
07/01/2012
Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
The silk medium.
07/01/2012
Rockasaurus Rockasaurus
Quote:
Originally posted by marrythenight
Which would you get for a vaginal penetrative n00b?
The medium Silk, going in the middle is a good place to be.
07/01/2012
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