Which of these for my first real dildo?

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Which of these for my first real dildo?

Ryuson Ryuson 11/24/2011

I'm looking for something with a flat base that's relatively small in size. I would prefer for it to be slightly flexible and body safe, and my boyfriend doesn't want me to get anything realistic (Which is why I haven't included the Vixskin Spur in this poll.) I would prefer not to go over $60. Which would you consider to be a good first dildo?

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Ryuson Ryuson
And if you could explain why that would be awesome!
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Beck , Rawhide , Rin (aka Nire) , jay28 , ily , neon
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Total votes: 99 (98 voters)
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Kindred Kindred
I think either would be a good choice. Personally, I would go for the Flurry because of the dual density O2 silicone. The Flurry also has the double ridge. The Bandito will be firmer and has the benefit of a nice curve.
11/24/2011
jedent jedent
go with something closer to traditional at first and then work your way up to the scloopy loopy
11/24/2011
Beck Beck
Sedeux please

This is a link to my review. The sedeux please is small in size with a flared base. It is good choice. I have not used either one of the choices you have up there, but the O2 looks fun.
11/24/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
Sedeux please

This is a link to my review. The sedeux please is small in size with a flared base. It is good choice. I have not used either one of the choices you have up there, but the O2 looks fun. ...
Thanks for the recommendation! Would that be good for g-spot play or is it too soft? Great review, by the way!
11/24/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
Hmm~ All the reviews for the sportsheets dildos say that they're not good for vaginal play because of the size? Anyone have any experience with the Sedeux Flare?
11/24/2011
Rawhide Rawhide
Try the Silky! link The blue color is unrealistic, it's very soft and forgiving, and it will hold any curve you bend it into so you can figure out what you like best
11/24/2011
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I always liked the Silk Medium for a good basic dildo. Or, if you want something really little, it comes in Small as well. Can't complain about 100% silicone, and Tantus always does good work.

Personally, I prefer the Spur of my small toys, and I'd just go ahead despite what the guy said, but I'm not you. Besides, the Spur needs to be stored more carefully than normal silicone, which is space-consuming.
11/24/2011
Clandestine Clandestine
Of the two you posted in the poll, I would go with the Flurry. I have its close relative, the O2 Cush, which is excellent. The dual density material is great, and the dual "heads" of the Flurry should provide added stimulation without irritation due to the soft nature of the outer material.

My first dildo was also a Tantus product, the Acute. It's a good price, a nice size for beginners, and has a great angled curve. I'd recommend it as a starter dildo for sure.
11/24/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
Quote:
Originally posted by Rin (aka Nire)
I always liked the Silk Medium for a good basic dildo. Or, if you want something really little, it comes in Small as well. Can't complain about 100% silicone, and Tantus always does good work.

Personally, I prefer the Spur of my small ...
Thank you so much for the suggestions! Right not I'm leaning more towards either the Silk Medium or the Bandito!
The Tantus brand really does look high quality!
11/24/2011
Nothere Nothere
I don't have either, but the bandito looks really really good for g spot stimulation!
11/24/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
Quote:
Originally posted by Nothere
I don't have either, but the bandito looks really really good for g spot stimulation!
Thanks for the vote! I keep going back to that one even though the O2 has so many more votes!
11/24/2011
mistressg mistressg
I'm considering getting my first soon! I've never actually had a plain regular dildo, just various types of vibrators. Of these, I would go with the O2. But I've really had my eye on this. It is really pretty, it's silicone, AND it can vibrate if I want it to!
Once it's back in stock and I have enough points I'd really love to get it...but I'll probably have to wait a while.
11/24/2011
alliegator alliegator
I want a blue Flurry. I already have a purple O2 Revolution and like it, and think the Flurry would be great for when I don't want something quite so girth-y.
11/24/2011
ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
And if you could explain why that would be awesome!
I'd pick the O2 Flurry
11/24/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
Quote:
Originally posted by mistressg
I'm considering getting my first soon! I've never actually had a plain regular dildo, just various types of vibrators. Of these, I would go with the O2. But I've really had my eye on this. It is really pretty, it's silicone, AND it ...
That looks nice, but it may be too realistic for my boyfriend~ Thanks for the input!
11/24/2011
zeebot zeebot
I haven't used either, but I really want the bandito!
11/24/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
Quote:
Originally posted by zeebot
I haven't used either, but I really want the bandito!
Can you vote for it in the poll so I can have an accurate count? Thanks!
11/24/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
My vote goes to the O2 Flurry!
11/24/2011
Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I think the O2 Flurry is a great choice because of the dual density silicone. My first dildo was the Lelo Ella, which is great for G-spotting and totally couple friendly, but doesn't have a flat base like you wanted.
11/25/2011
tlaskowski tlaskowski
o2 looks sexy
11/25/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
Quote:
Originally posted by Love Perpetua
I think the O2 Flurry is a great choice because of the dual density silicone. My first dildo was the Lelo Ella, which is great for G-spotting and totally couple friendly, but doesn't have a flat base like you wanted.
I really want that, too, but I'm looking for something I can put on a chair/pillow and... You know the rest of the story!
Thanks for the vote!
11/25/2011
AtlasX AtlasX
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
And if you could explain why that would be awesome!
Looks good to me!
11/25/2011
MeliPixie MeliPixie
I'd go for the O2 any day, but personally I don't see why, if it's for you, your boyfriend's opinion counts here ^^;;
11/25/2011
Antipova Antipova
I was going to suggest my favorite dildo, the Tantus VIP, until I saw your boyfriend doesn't want something too realistic. Then I was going to suggest my next-favorite*, the Gold Laced G, but I saw you wanted something soft.

So honestly? I'm voting Bandito. It comes in a nice lavender, it's a beginner's size, it's swirly and pretty. I love the feel of their Wave, which I assume is pretty similar. And it's just a little bit softer than my preference, which means it's prefect for just about everybody except me So go with your heart, dear. Try out the Bandito!

Go ahead and sample some O2 in the future, too... but I'd start with a standard one first. That way you'll have something to compare the dual density with in the future.

*Not including NobEssence, those are a little outside the price range for a "first dildo," but if money's no object, Smooth S Shape!
11/25/2011
Piña Colada Piña Colada
Better without the curve for a beginner!
11/25/2011
Rossie Rossie
If you prefer G-spot stimulation, go for the Bandito.
11/25/2011
Kaltir Kaltir
I like the Flurry;-)
11/26/2011
Kdlips Kdlips
O2 Flurry
11/26/2011
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Quote:
Originally posted by MeliPixie
I'd go for the O2 any day, but personally I don't see why, if it's for you, your boyfriend's opinion counts here ^^;;
Right On!! I concur. Who are we pleasing? You should get what you like; maybe your boyfriend could get his own

Do take a look at LELO Gigi, even though it doesn't have a base as you like; I got this for my wife and she loves it for clitoral and g-spot stim.
11/26/2011
Girly Girl Girly Girl
purple are always great looking toys to start with my was purple metallic,, just see some reviews to see with one mostly others start with ,, always grab your own preference since each one of us is unique ,,, you make like things that others don´t like ,, just see the reviews and ask yourself which one you like
11/27/2011
Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
The O2 flurry looks nice and would be my pick out of the two you had chosen. I myself covet the ella and would really like one but it doesn't have the flat base you're after.
11/27/2011
Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
I voted for Bandido but I definitely recommend the Tantus Acute!
12/07/2011
Silverdrop Silverdrop
Boyfriends who are threatened by realistic dildos are silly. What do they think, you're going to dump them for a piece of flesh tone silicone but not the blue one?
12/07/2011
Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
The O2 looks really nice, I have been eyeing that one up for some time.
12/07/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
I voted for the O2 because the dual density has a really unique feeling. Almost like skin over an erection.

But, you should buy whatever dildo you feel is going to be the most fun for you. One thing: dils with G Spot hooks can be harder to thrust with than other dildos. It depends if you'll be using it for thrusting or not. Of course, if you have a nice time with G Spot play, then the one with the G Spot hook is perfect.

Hard to make a choice, isn't it.
12/07/2011
Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
Of course the Flurry is better.
12/07/2011
Callisto Callisto
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
And if you could explain why that would be awesome!
Flurry because the material might be a little more forgiving. I haven't touched the bandito but if you're looking for something with texture but don't know if you like texture yet.. Flurry is the way to go.
12/10/2011
Beck Beck
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
Sedeux please

This is a link to my review. The sedeux please is small in size with a flared base. It is good choice. I have not used either one of the choices you have up there, but the O2 looks fun. ...
It really is not that good for g spotting, it is too soft and flexible, but works well for anal. Thanks for the compliment.
12/10/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I haven't used any but 02 looks fun.
12/10/2011
neon neon
vixen goodfella!
12/12/2011
babychika babychika
Do you like it extremely curved?
12/12/2011
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
And if you could explain why that would be awesome!
I think you would appreciate the dual density and high quality of Tantus' O2 Flurry. The strong curve of the Bandito may not be a stellar choice for a first dildo.

If I can throw in my two cents, I would suggest Doc Johnson's Platinum Original. It is not dual density like the O2 Flurry but it is 100% medical grade silicone, inexpensive, has a flat base, and a pronounced head. Although I have a relatively extensive collection, the Platinum Original is still my favorite- and least expensive- dildo. Good luck on your hunt : )
12/27/2011
Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
And if you could explain why that would be awesome!
I'm a beginner too and I would go for the blue one, the purple one just looks a little intimidating to me right now.
01/03/2012
Badass Badass
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
And if you could explain why that would be awesome!
flurry fo sho
02/01/2012
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