To spit or not to spit, that is the question.

Rocky LaFemme Rocky LaFemme
Rocky LaFemme
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Is it ever ok for a person to spit on your genitals or on any part of their body and put that spit covered part of them in contact with your? I think spit is very nasty and when I see it in porn it totally ruins the moment for me. So have you ever allowed someone to do that to you? Do you do that to others and if so why or why not? I'm just curious as to where this spitting thing came from.
07/21/2009
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Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
I spit relatively often, especially when I'm performing oral or masturbating my partner. I mostly use natural lubrication or water-based lube, so I really don't have much of a choice if I don't want them to chafe.

No, I don't spit all over the place. It's a more "ladylike" spitting, where I get close to the place I want the spit to go, then spit a little and keep going. I dislike the smell of spit on my hand and will usually wash up a little afterward, but during, I don't mind it.
07/21/2009
Raven Raven
I so agree with what you said. I also think spit is gross and seeing people in porn flicks drop huge wads of it onto their partners genitals is a definte turn-off. I have thought maybe they do it because they need the lube and they haven't found an artificial lubricant that tastes good. Maybe the female should just fuck herself with a dildo for a bit before the action starts so that there is some natural lube there.

I do not spit on my husbands bits and he doesn't do it to me. Regular amounts of saliva that come from basic oral sex are fine, big globs of spit are not.
07/21/2009
spicywife spicywife
We don't spit on each other, but I agree with merinus - regular amounts of saliva that come from basic oral sex is fine. I don't have an aversion to saliva, but spitting seems crude to me. I guess it works for some though?
07/21/2009
Raven Raven
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Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
I spit relatively often, especially when I'm performing oral or masturbating my partner. I mostly use natural lubrication or water-based lube, so I really don't have much of a choice if I don't want them to chafe.

No, I don't ... More
Small amounts like you describe might not be that bad, but it's the stuff I see on porn that I find icky. Isn't saliva short-lived, though? Aren't repeated applications necessary?
07/21/2009
Oggins Oggins
I really don't have a too much of a problem with spit. Well, with my husband anyway, I won't let just anybody spit on me, lol! When you think about it, kissing is basically swapping spit, right? Then when he goes down on me, he gets saliva there anyway so, I'm not opposed to spitting if he likes it. I have been knows to spit on his cock during a blow job as well to help my lips slide better down his shaft too. Lube isn't always available and sometimes what is available just tastes gross. So yeah, we're spitters.

As far as watching it in porn, it really depends on the situation. I've seen some spitting that totally turned me off and others that I kind of enjoyed. I guess it's just give and take for us in that department but I can see where it wouldn't be enjoyable to everyone.
07/21/2009
Rockin' Rockin'
Spitting doesn't even come to mind because I'm such a good drooler. I'm usually salivating pretty well no matter what I'm/we're doing, so I either lick my fingers or just get really close to his skin and lick or kiss so I leave a lot of saliva behind. Lube works tons better than saliva alone for us, though, so I like to start off applying lube and then licking it to keep it fresh and slick.
07/21/2009
Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
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Originally posted by Raven
Small amounts like you describe might not be that bad, but it's the stuff I see on porn that I find icky. Isn't saliva short-lived, though? Aren't repeated applications necessary?
Yes, they are. Most natural body fluids that are involved in sex are short-lived, with the possible exception of the throat mucus that coats the penis during deep=throating. It's relatively thick.

Also, the suggestion that a woman fuck herself to get lubed up is rather odd, since many women need lubrication to have comfortable penetration in the first place.
07/21/2009
Rocky LaFemme Rocky LaFemme
Quote:
Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
I spit relatively often, especially when I'm performing oral or masturbating my partner. I mostly use natural lubrication or water-based lube, so I really don't have much of a choice if I don't want them to chafe.

No, I don't ... More
"ladylike" spitting I love that and yes spit exchange with kissing, licking of fingers, and basic oral sex is AOK with me. But that sound that is made in a lot of porn when they grab a big one from deep down inside of them and SPLAT. I just can't handle it.
07/21/2009
Raven Raven
Quote:
Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
Yes, they are. Most natural body fluids that are involved in sex are short-lived, with the possible exception of the throat mucus that coats the penis during deep=throating. It's relatively thick.

Also, the suggestion that a woman fuck ... More
A finger or two going in and out of the vagina is all it takes for me to get wet even if I'm not all that aroused. It's an automatic thing, and that's what I was thinking of. Maybe I'm different. I definitely didn't meant large dildoes. OUCH! Sorry I didn't make it clearer.
07/21/2009
Raven Raven
Quote:
Originally posted by Rocky LaFemme
"ladylike" spitting I love that and yes spit exchange with kissing, licking of fingers, and basic oral sex is AOK with me. But that sound that is made in a lot of porn when they grab a big one from deep down inside of them and SPLAT. I just ... More
LOL! Yes, that's what I consider icky, also.
07/21/2009
Sammi Sammi
We spit quite a bit, although it's not like coughing up a loogie . Particularly when we're just masturbating each other.
07/21/2009
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
Rearing back and spitting great wads like they do in porn grosses me out, and if Alan ever did it he'd probably find himself with an immediately "turned off" partner. However, the natural drool/spit that tends to come from oral sex doesn't bother me.
07/21/2009
Red Red
Spit is a funny thing. It's a bit/a lot of a mood killer for me when a partner leans back and spits on their hand (please, god, just use lube), especially if it's really drooly....or actually, if I can see it at all.

BUT

There is something about being in the midst of some rough play....having my partner lean forward, and just spit on me - either on my bits before roughly penetrating me, or on my face following a slap..... it does something to me. The first time I ever had a partner spit on my face in the middle of some SM stuff (context, right, it's all about context), I remember feeling overwhelmingly intimate and connected to him and to the moment.


Long story short? Different strokes for different folks. And nope, I don't get why it's so prevalent in porn.
07/21/2009
Valyn Valyn
I'm okay with it, especially how my boyfriend and I do it. We just wet our hands and moisten the area, and it's not gross that way. Usually my boyfriend just goes down on me or I on him if needed.
07/21/2009
Sir Sir
I have done it, not for fun, but because I didn't have lubricant on me. I've never "spit," though, I've licked up and gotten wet with saliva.
07/22/2009
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I agree with most here. I am fine with natural saliva that occurs during oral but I will not spit a wad on my man and he has not and will not ever spit on my bits either.

I do enjoy licking my hand to make it really wet and slippery when I give my man oral. Also, seeing a string of saliva from his cock to my mouth during oral really turns me on. Spitting like a baseball player...not really my thing.
07/22/2009
LilyLust LilyLust
Ewww, that just seams nasty to me. When you say spit I think of a wad of spit, with possible phlem. I'm fine with the normal amount of drool that happens with oral but if my husband ever spit on my lady parts like that, the mood would be ruined.
07/24/2009
Lucky Luna Lucky Luna
The one quote I have heard defending spit is "Don't knock it if it works"
Of course, this didn't involve the loogie concept, either - it was only a little saliva, and it went directly from his mouth to his hand and then to his cock.
Any usual amount of saliva is fine - the baseball player comparison really paints an ugly picture, though.
03/14/2010
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