My partner and I have a small jelly dildo, it's great with a condom over it but without it makes us STING! Have you ever had this problem with jelly toys?
I didn't have that problem but I don't buy those toys anymore now that I've been on EF. I would throw your toy out NOW if it's hurting you, it could be an allergic reaction or something else and isn't worth it. Find something of a better material
I only ever had one jelly toy, and I never was able to use it because at the time it was way too big. I'm kind of happy I couldn't use it, though, since I've learned that jelly isn't very body-friendly. That toy in particular felt really greasy, which meant it was leaking pthalates by the truckload.
We started with a couple jelly toys, and while I'm now pretty 100% committed to silicone/glass/metal toys, they were okay for us. But there was one that gave me a stinging sensation once. Into the trash!