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Anal electrocution. Not kidding! look into a basic TENS unit or analogous toy. Also try pads on the penis and taint but be sure to shave first.
Holy cow, that seems a little bit intense for some couples and might be moving too fast for people who have just begun working to reignite their passion. I respect your opinion, but I definitely don't think that this is a general cure-all that can satisfy every man, nor is it something that I feel most people struggling with their love lives can just jump straight into! I am one hundred percent certain that this would cause tension in the bedroom (not to mention out of it) were I to suggest it to my partner, which would have the exact opposite effect of pleasing him.
I absolutely agree with Hummingbird and Catan - sitting down, talking to him about what has been lacking in your sex lives and letting him know that you're still very much interested in satisfying him is what I would be doing were I in a similar situation. Even if you're not in a standard relationship, opening up a line for communication is key. He might not even know that you've been feeling inadequate lately, and talking things through with him is the best first step I can suggest without knowing more about your specific situation.