I have a couple of toys/articles of clothing where this was an issue, and I still have (and use) them.
Toys after breakup?
02/14/2011
Toys for me, all mine. Anything for him, he can have.
02/14/2011
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Heh, agreed.
Originally posted by
al16
Toys for me, all mine. Anything for him, he can have.
02/15/2011
His sleeves and whatnot, he can have. Everything else is mine.
02/19/2011
Definitely keep all of them! I pick them, I buy them. They are mine all mine hehehehe
02/19/2011
Well... not planning a break up anytime soon but I'd keep mine... she'd keep hers and we'd probably split the shared ones somehow... not a big deal really.
02/25/2011
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i'd either be throwing them away or finding a way to sanitize them like bleach water or something.
Originally posted by
kawigrl
some toys are very expensive, i'm curious do you keep track of toys you have before and buy during the relationship, what about after?
what do you do with toys after you and a partner break up?
what do you do with toys after you and a partner break up?
08/11/2011
I tossed all of my lingire after I broke up with me last boyfriend; I think I;d do the same with toys!
08/11/2011
keep
08/11/2011
Keep some. Throw some out. I think I'd have a hard time convincing a future partner to use the same toys as my ex.
08/11/2011
I voted for keeping them all.
08/13/2011
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Keep em all!
Originally posted by
kawigrl
some toys are very expensive, i'm curious do you keep track of toys you have before and buy during the relationship, what about after?
what do you do with toys after you and a partner break up?
what do you do with toys after you and a partner break up?
08/13/2011
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Depending on the toys I doubt they'd really be usable on someone else.. in a health manner. I'd hoard em :x
Originally posted by
kawigrl
some toys are very expensive, i'm curious do you keep track of toys you have before and buy during the relationship, what about after?
what do you do with toys after you and a partner break up?
what do you do with toys after you and a partner break up?
08/13/2011
Well since I own all of our toys I'd keep them. What would he do with my vibes? Well, I guess if we split he could use them on someone else, but... uh, ew! Lol That would be kind of funny though. Ha. I doubt we'd split up after 5 years, but I would keep them or throw em' out. I know I couldn't ever get rid of my cliterrific cup and a few others, but I guess it'd be hard to look at them since he's who uses them on me.
08/15/2011
I have never thought of this,but Im sure if we divorce the last thing I would care of is who is keeping the toys.
08/16/2011
I'm fluid bound to my current partner so, if we broke up, they few porous toys I own would probably be dumped. Partly because it's good hygiene but mostly because I don't like my lower-end toys.
08/16/2011
It may depend on the toy.. If it's a toy I bought just for them then they can have it
08/16/2011
JaxJim
I've almost always split amicably with partners. We'll split them up. I'm a softy and will usually cave if she really wants something.
Other than the toys used on me though, I usually let her have them. I've learned most ladies don't enjoy using something this personal "leftover" from another relationship.
Other than the toys used on me though, I usually let her have them. I've learned most ladies don't enjoy using something this personal "leftover" from another relationship.
08/19/2011
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Keep the ones that I bought with my money
Originally posted by
kawigrl
some toys are very expensive, i'm curious do you keep track of toys you have before and buy during the relationship, what about after?
what do you do with toys after you and a partner break up?
what do you do with toys after you and a partner break up?
04/15/2012
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keep all of them
Originally posted by
kawigrl
some toys are very expensive, i'm curious do you keep track of toys you have before and buy during the relationship, what about after?
what do you do with toys after you and a partner break up?
what do you do with toys after you and a partner break up?
04/16/2012
i could never use them again.....on another person no matter how clean they were, that's gross
04/16/2012
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i would let her keep whatever she wants. i wouldn't reuse them with anyone else myself
Originally posted by
kawigrl
some toys are very expensive, i'm curious do you keep track of toys you have before and buy during the relationship, what about after?
what do you do with toys after you and a partner break up?
what do you do with toys after you and a partner break up?
04/17/2012
I bough *all* of the toys in my last relationship. He decided to take it upon himself to keep everything that I had gotten for us, never mind that everything I wanted back was completely sterilizable, he just decided to keep it all. I drew the line and DEMANDED my discontinued Mantric Sysil Edge back (he can keep the butt toys, whatever I'll just be bitter...)
04/17/2012
The toys are mostly all used on me so I would keep them.
04/17/2012
I kept all of them since they were mine to start with. If any were ever gifted to me I would probably still use them, I don't feel too attached to people.
04/18/2012
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I will let my girlfriend keep just about all of them besides a few masturbators.
Originally posted by
kawigrl
some toys are very expensive, i'm curious do you keep track of toys you have before and buy during the relationship, what about after?
what do you do with toys after you and a partner break up?
what do you do with toys after you and a partner break up?
04/18/2012
I would keep what I paid for. I think that's fair.
04/18/2012
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Depends. If its a couples toy, then its going in the garbage. 1. I don't think that it would be very clean for me to share it with another guy AND I'll be damned if he's using it to pleasure another girl lmao.
Originally posted by
kawigrl
some toys are very expensive, i'm curious do you keep track of toys you have before and buy during the relationship, what about after?
what do you do with toys after you and a partner break up?
what do you do with toys after you and a partner break up?
If its mine and only mine, then it stays. You can bet your butt that thing is stayin' with me! Toys are way too expensive these days to just discard them lol. Unless of course for reasons stated above
04/18/2012
Keep anything I bought, unless it was really special.
04/18/2012
keep em
04/20/2012