Are your sex toys destroying your sex life?

indiechick indiechick
Sometime I think that i have gotten so used to a toy getting me off that the real thing can never measure up and other times toys add greatness to my sex life. So I want to know if your use of toys has added or detracted from your sex life. If it depends on the situation (please explain) or if they don't make a difference. Thanx in advance Eden Community
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Sex Toys enhance my sex life
Antipova , Kitka , Beck , js250 , VelvetDragon , Gone (LD29) , P'Gell , ghalik , ghent529 , El-Jaro , ciderspider , AHubbyof2SexualMinds , Femme Mystique , bh253 , DeliciousB , lilly555 , CuteDee , ejrbrndps , ToyTimeTim , humblepie , indiglo , Gunsmoke , SMichelle , Girly Juice , Teaser , Ms. N , Rossie , padmeamidala , comatose-kitty , Gemstone , Vadim50 , Gracie , MissManners , woofcub , roskat , Fuck it. , aubergine-sway , Arch600 , NarcissisticLust , Sammi , OhMy! , Melan!e , Azule , Bullfroggy and Rose , Mwar , tA , Passion plum , Eva Schwaltz , DreamWolf , Darklyvan , Ryuson , Airen Wolf , Taylor , gsfanatic , sunkissedJess , SilverMinxxx , pasdechat , Zombirella , BlooJay , bayosgirl , Ibegoodone , BBW Talks Toys , llellsee , pinkpottergirl , TameTemptress , LavenderSkies , panda555 , CoffeeCup , kitty1949 , epiphanyjayne , PropertyOfPotter , potstickers , Feisty , LaSchwartz , Sauceboss
75  (90%)
My toys have detracted from my sex life
My toys have at time both enhanced and detracted from my sex life
indiechick , nosrslylol , MissBre , little miss kinky , Geogeo
5  (6%)
my toys do no change my sex life
Badass , meezerosity , darthkitt3n
3  (4%)
Total votes: 83
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js250 js250
Definitely enhanced. It is still amazing when we use no toys, but using them together is pretty fun.
05/11/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
I know they have enhanced our sex life. I started having a difficult time having orgasms, (before we ever used any sex toys, due to a hormonal problem) and My Man thought we should try some sex toys. This was a number of years ago. Not only did I start having reliable orgasms again, but the sex is better than ever!

We sometimes have a quickie without toys. But, I need them to come. So, we use them a lot.

We have sex now more than we ever have. So, they really have enhanced our sex life.
05/11/2012
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Can't destroy something you don't have. :-/
05/11/2012
Annemarie Annemarie
I think they've honestly sort of ruined my ability to get off without them.

I've been masturbating very regularly (roughly nightly) for a very long time, more than 10 years. I've moved up the ranks of clit o'steel-ness, and now can't get off without my Wahl. My partner wants me to be able to get off without it, to be able to give me an orgasm with his mouth or his penis, and it just ain't gonna happen. It's made it more difficult for me to have an orgasm unassisted.
05/11/2012
AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
They definitely enhance our sex life, I love seeing my wife be happy and pleasured.
05/11/2012
Badass Badass
My fellow isn't into using toys while we're doing it, but if he finishes before I do, he likes to watch me finish.

I also "do it myself" quite regularly.. but I don't think it has changed or altered my sex life at all.
05/11/2012
lilly555 lilly555
Using toys solo or with a partner are two different things. Both of which are different from using no toys with a partner. I feel like its a variety that adds to your sex life. Personally I get bored rather easily so toys enhance my experiences and add something extra to what could become a monotomous situation.
05/11/2012
CuteDee CuteDee
I understand what you are saying... Id be lost w/o my vibe! But I need it during sex to get off so my toys help my sex life!
05/11/2012
Girly Juice Girly Juice
I've never allowed myself to become dependent on vibration to get off, because I know how much better it feels to get off from other kinds of stimulation (fingers, tongues, etc). The odd time that I use a sex toy with my partner, it's always just lots of fun for both of us.
05/11/2012
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Can't destroy something you don't have. :-/
Same.
05/11/2012
Rossie Rossie
Toys enhance my sex life. If I don't include toys in my foreplay, my orgasms during sex take much longer time to achieve. I like to keep a balance on what toy to use, if I've used the rabbit vibrator today, then I'll use a dildo the next time, I believe using vibrating/non-vibratin g toys alternately helps keep my sensitivity level up.
05/11/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
i have no real sex life but i cant imagine how theyd make a sex life bad.
05/11/2012
nosrslylol nosrslylol
sometimes they help, sometimes... Yeah.
05/11/2012
Woman China Woman China
Sex toys have given me the freedom to have various types of orgasms with or without a man. And since most of the men I have been with over the past number of years (who am I kidding here? It's gotten to the point where I think something is wrong with me for not orgasming with a man- but I know it is not the case, but it's hard not to think that with the track record) are not concerned with me but only with themselves, if i want satisfaction, I have to take matters into my own hands.

With some men, sex toys have added to the play time, providing lots of laughter and hours more time spent enjoying each other. This is good.

I just need to find a man who would let me try out pegging.
05/11/2012
woofcub woofcub
toys definitely make my sex life more interesting, they just add a fun element and can be used in so many different sexual situations.
05/11/2012
Fuck it. Fuck it.
Toys definitely enhance mine. Trying new things brings us closer together.
05/11/2012
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by indiechick
Sometime I think that i have gotten so used to a toy getting me off that the real thing can never measure up and other times toys add greatness to my sex life. So I want to know if your use of toys has added or detracted from your sex life. If it ... More
Far from it! Toys exponentially improved my sex life and helped open up discussions my partner and I previously would not have been comfortable with.
05/11/2012
Arch600 Arch600
Toys have enhanced our sex life without a doubt. We're like teenagers again at times. I think exploring together has brought us closer as well.

I understand how you may feel that way sometimes though. We all get to thinking our climax has to happen 'the right way' or else something must be lacking. Nothing is farther from the truth. Sex is about sharing the experience with someone special. Whether that experience includes toys or not it is shared just the same. Whether your orgasm is caused by your partner's genitals, a tongue, your/their fingers, a toy, a pillow, or a million other possibilities doesn't matter in the end. What matters is your partner was there to experience it with you; that you love and trust them enough to share your pleasure with them. The method makes no difference in how incredible it feels to be that special person.
05/11/2012
Melan!e Melan!e
I don't need my vibes to get off, they just mix things up for us. I haven't become depend on them so they definitely enhance our sex life.
05/11/2012
Azule Azule
They are definitely not destroying it, if anything they have made so many new experiences far more comfortable.
05/11/2012
Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
they improve it by opening us up to new things.
05/11/2012
Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
Enhancing, for sure.
05/11/2012
Mwar Mwar
Enhance! It makes my libido soar!
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Passion plum Passion plum
Really enhanced. We integrated toys and don't let them dominate.
05/11/2012
Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
I would say enhanced. I am more confident and I know what I want, and that has definitely improved my sex life. I don't need a toy every time I get off which is why I can still say I can live without them and still be fine.
05/11/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
They only enhance it blissfully... ^^
05/11/2012
Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by indiechick
Sometime I think that i have gotten so used to a toy getting me off that the real thing can never measure up and other times toys add greatness to my sex life. So I want to know if your use of toys has added or detracted from your sex life. If it ... More
they are a great addition
05/11/2012
Ryuson Ryuson
Enhanced, but they really haven't changed it too much overall.
05/11/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Enhanced, as we have more options to play with
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