Sometime I think that i have gotten so used to a toy getting me off that the real thing can never measure up and other times toys add greatness to my sex life. So I want to know if your use of toys has added or detracted from your sex life. If it depends on the situation (please explain) or if they don't make a difference. Thanx in advance Eden Community
Are your sex toys destroying your sex life?
I know they have enhanced our sex life. I started having a difficult time having orgasms, (before we ever used any sex toys, due to a hormonal problem) and My Man thought we should try some sex toys. This was a number of years ago. Not only did I start having reliable orgasms again, but the sex is better than ever!
We sometimes have a quickie without toys. But, I need them to come. So, we use them a lot.
We have sex now more than we ever have. So, they really have enhanced our sex life.
We sometimes have a quickie without toys. But, I need them to come. So, we use them a lot.
We have sex now more than we ever have. So, they really have enhanced our sex life.
05/11/2012
I think they've honestly sort of ruined my ability to get off without them.
I've been masturbating very regularly (roughly nightly) for a very long time, more than 10 years. I've moved up the ranks of clit o'steel-ness, and now can't get off without my Wahl. My partner wants me to be able to get off without it, to be able to give me an orgasm with his mouth or his penis, and it just ain't gonna happen. It's made it more difficult for me to have an orgasm unassisted.
I've been masturbating very regularly (roughly nightly) for a very long time, more than 10 years. I've moved up the ranks of clit o'steel-ness, and now can't get off without my Wahl. My partner wants me to be able to get off without it, to be able to give me an orgasm with his mouth or his penis, and it just ain't gonna happen. It's made it more difficult for me to have an orgasm unassisted.
05/11/2012
Using toys solo or with a partner are two different things. Both of which are different from using no toys with a partner. I feel like its a variety that adds to your sex life. Personally I get bored rather easily so toys enhance my experiences and add something extra to what could become a monotomous situation.
05/11/2012
Toys enhance my sex life. If I don't include toys in my foreplay, my orgasms during sex take much longer time to achieve. I like to keep a balance on what toy to use, if I've used the rabbit vibrator today, then I'll use a dildo the next time, I believe using vibrating/non-vibratin g toys alternately helps keep my sensitivity level up.
05/11/2012
Sex toys have given me the freedom to have various types of orgasms with or without a man. And since most of the men I have been with over the past number of years (who am I kidding here? It's gotten to the point where I think something is wrong with me for not orgasming with a man- but I know it is not the case, but it's hard not to think that with the track record) are not concerned with me but only with themselves, if i want satisfaction, I have to take matters into my own hands.
With some men, sex toys have added to the play time, providing lots of laughter and hours more time spent enjoying each other. This is good.
I just need to find a man who would let me try out pegging.
With some men, sex toys have added to the play time, providing lots of laughter and hours more time spent enjoying each other. This is good.
I just need to find a man who would let me try out pegging.
05/11/2012
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Far from it! Toys exponentially improved my sex life and helped open up discussions my partner and I previously would not have been comfortable with.
Originally posted by
indiechick
Sometime I think that i have gotten so used to a toy getting me off that the real thing can never measure up and other times toys add greatness to my sex life. So I want to know if your use of toys has added or detracted from your sex life. If it
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Sometime I think that i have gotten so used to a toy getting me off that the real thing can never measure up and other times toys add greatness to my sex life. So I want to know if your use of toys has added or detracted from your sex life. If it depends on the situation (please explain) or if they don't make a difference. Thanx in advance Eden Community
05/11/2012
Toys have enhanced our sex life without a doubt. We're like teenagers again at times. I think exploring together has brought us closer as well.
I understand how you may feel that way sometimes though. We all get to thinking our climax has to happen 'the right way' or else something must be lacking. Nothing is farther from the truth. Sex is about sharing the experience with someone special. Whether that experience includes toys or not it is shared just the same. Whether your orgasm is caused by your partner's genitals, a tongue, your/their fingers, a toy, a pillow, or a million other possibilities doesn't matter in the end. What matters is your partner was there to experience it with you; that you love and trust them enough to share your pleasure with them. The method makes no difference in how incredible it feels to be that special person.
I understand how you may feel that way sometimes though. We all get to thinking our climax has to happen 'the right way' or else something must be lacking. Nothing is farther from the truth. Sex is about sharing the experience with someone special. Whether that experience includes toys or not it is shared just the same. Whether your orgasm is caused by your partner's genitals, a tongue, your/their fingers, a toy, a pillow, or a million other possibilities doesn't matter in the end. What matters is your partner was there to experience it with you; that you love and trust them enough to share your pleasure with them. The method makes no difference in how incredible it feels to be that special person.
05/11/2012
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they are a great addition
Originally posted by
indiechick
Sometime I think that i have gotten so used to a toy getting me off that the real thing can never measure up and other times toys add greatness to my sex life. So I want to know if your use of toys has added or detracted from your sex life. If it
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Sometime I think that i have gotten so used to a toy getting me off that the real thing can never measure up and other times toys add greatness to my sex life. So I want to know if your use of toys has added or detracted from your sex life. If it depends on the situation (please explain) or if they don't make a difference. Thanx in advance Eden Community
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