I had just turned 19, and a friend was hosting a pleasure party, and I was so out of my comfort zone! I had no idea half of what everyone was talking about, but I thought I should get a toy and start experimenting. I bought a cheap little vibrator, and it was so buzzy that it just tickled! I still have it, though. I should try it out again sometime and see if it's any better for me now that I've got more experience under my belt!