Well my answer is more complicated. (Of course it is, I'm long winded.) I need
vaginal penetration of some kind to have an orgasm. I also need strong clitoral vibrations, too. Like Hitachi/Wahl strength vibrations.
What we usually do is have him go down for a while, with either his hand or a vibrator or dil inserted, and when I am close, we switch to the Wahl while keeping the vibe or dil or hand where it is. We usually do not turn on the internal vibrator at this time. (I have found that is is often distracting.) Of course, a little anal play along with the above is always great.
But, I can't have an orgasm from internal vibrations alone. But, I need the penetration. Every woman is different about what she needs.