I got the Getaway Wild and I hated it. I am definitely used to insertion, but the shape of the head and the stiffness of the material made the product extremely uncomfortable. Even though the Getaway Pure has a different head shape, I would choose a different product. You need to practice and experiment and you need a product that is flexible and safe. I would choose anything that is made out of silicone. But since you are a beginner, I would especially recommend a product like SinFive Insigno or Evolved Roulette High Roller.