Men do you like to use your partners dildo/vibrator on her? and women do you like it when your man screws your brains out with your own toy?
I like to use toys with my wife. Its nice to get a different perspective of her body when I use toys on her. Also comes in handy when I finish before she does and need my recovery time. Nothing like watching her tremble from a real nice "O" to get me ready again.