I would like to experience my first pure g-spot orgasm. I get close and I either freak out cause I feel like I am going to pee or I get tired/lazy and add a bullet to my clit and have a nice combo. I want to accomplish this solo before I add a partner so I know if I am a squirt or not. I usually cum first with just a clitoral orgasm and then try to move in to g-spot stimulation at most 5 minutes later. So any ideas on toys and technique would be helpful. I do not know if a vibrator or dildo is the best way to go.
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Definitely invest in the Ella! While she doesn't work for everybody (I still have yet to achieve a g-spot orgasm or squirt with her, but there are other factors that affect this) she has been a miracle for some. Even if she doesn't quite take you there, she definitely targets the g-spot really well, is made of a safe material, and doesn't cost a whole lot.
Originally posted by
Rocky LaFemme
I would like to experience my first pure g-spot orgasm. I get close and I either freak out cause I feel like I am going to pee or I get tired/lazy and add a bullet to my clit and have a nice combo. I want to accomplish this solo before I add a
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I would like to experience my first pure g-spot orgasm. I get close and I either freak out cause I feel like I am going to pee or I get tired/lazy and add a bullet to my clit and have a nice combo. I want to accomplish this solo before I add a partner so I know if I am a squirt or not. I usually cum first with just a clitoral orgasm and then try to move in to g-spot stimulation at most 5 minutes later. So any ideas on toys and technique would be helpful. I do not know if a vibrator or dildo is the best way to go.
05/01/2009
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My wife has to be really worked up for the Ella to work on her. If she hasn't already orgasmed or isn't close it isn't much fun for her. Haven't made her squirt yet but still trying.
Originally posted by
Lithaewyn
Definitely invest in the Ella! While she doesn't work for everybody (I still have yet to achieve a g-spot orgasm or squirt with her, but there are other factors that affect this) she has been a miracle for some. Even if she doesn't quite take
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Definitely invest in the Ella! While she doesn't work for everybody (I still have yet to achieve a g-spot orgasm or squirt with her, but there are other factors that affect this) she has been a miracle for some. Even if she doesn't quite take you there, she definitely targets the g-spot really well, is made of a safe material, and doesn't cost a whole lot.
05/01/2009
Rabbit vibes like you linked to aren't the greatest for g-spot stim, in my opinion. They make you feel full and the beads can feel loverly but I've yet to have a g-spot orgasm from a rabbit.
Glass dildos work well for me, as does the sugar drop. I've found it's much easier to have a g-spot orgasm from thrusting rather than vibration. I've heard good things about the Gigi, though, which gives you a bit of both worlds.
Glass dildos work well for me, as does the sugar drop. I've found it's much easier to have a g-spot orgasm from thrusting rather than vibration. I've heard good things about the Gigi, though, which gives you a bit of both worlds.
05/01/2009
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I agree that a rabbit probably won't do it for you as well as a g-spot dildo or vibrator.
Originally posted by
Carrie Ann
Rabbit vibes like you linked to aren't the greatest for g-spot stim, in my opinion. They make you feel full and the beads can feel loverly but I've yet to have a g-spot orgasm from a rabbit.
Glass dildos work well for me, as does the ...
Glass dildos work well for me, as does the ...
Rabbit vibes like you linked to aren't the greatest for g-spot stim, in my opinion. They make you feel full and the beads can feel loverly but I've yet to have a g-spot orgasm from a rabbit.
Glass dildos work well for me, as does the sugar drop. I've found it's much easier to have a g-spot orgasm from thrusting rather than vibration. I've heard good things about the Gigi, though, which gives you a bit of both worlds.
Glass dildos work well for me, as does the sugar drop. I've found it's much easier to have a g-spot orgasm from thrusting rather than vibration. I've heard good things about the Gigi, though, which gives you a bit of both worlds.
Its essential to be somewhere where you can be free of the fear of peeing. Either have multiple folded towels under you or sit on the edge of the tub so it wouldn't matter even if you do pee. As long as you're afraid of peeing you won't be successful.
I also find that it helps to have a little pee in your bladder. It increases sensation. I've only managed a g-gasm on an empty bladder once, but it happens reliably if my bladder isn't empty.
05/01/2009
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Definitely. I like to practice in the shower; if I do pee it's not a big deal. Plus, it's one of my favorite places to play.
Originally posted by
Tuesday
I agree that a rabbit probably won't do it for you as well as a g-spot dildo or vibrator.
Its essential to be somewhere where you can be free of the fear of peeing. Either have multiple folded towels under you or sit on the edge of the ...
Its essential to be somewhere where you can be free of the fear of peeing. Either have multiple folded towels under you or sit on the edge of the ...
I agree that a rabbit probably won't do it for you as well as a g-spot dildo or vibrator.
Its essential to be somewhere where you can be free of the fear of peeing. Either have multiple folded towels under you or sit on the edge of the tub so it wouldn't matter even if you do pee. As long as you're afraid of peeing you won't be successful.
I also find that it helps to have a little pee in your bladder. It increases sensation. I've only managed a g-gasm on an empty bladder once, but it happens reliably if my bladder isn't empty.
Its essential to be somewhere where you can be free of the fear of peeing. Either have multiple folded towels under you or sit on the edge of the tub so it wouldn't matter even if you do pee. As long as you're afraid of peeing you won't be successful.
I also find that it helps to have a little pee in your bladder. It increases sensation. I've only managed a g-gasm on an empty bladder once, but it happens reliably if my bladder isn't empty.
Some other tips I've picked up from hanging out here:
-Keep yourself hydrated
-Have a mostly empty to fully empty bladder (it varies for the person)
-Relax. Don't be so hard on yourself if you don't come.
-Relax. If you pee, you pee. If you squirt, awesome! But you'll never know if you don't let go!
Also, some people say they prefer more firm pressure that glass or metal can give versus the "softer" silicone of the Ella. I don't know your price range, but the Ella is probably the least expensive model of the three materials. When you're shopping, just be sure to keep an eye out for the more "hooked" end which is typical of a g-spot dildo.
Everyone is different, but personally, interior vibrations do very little for me. So even though the Gigi and other high-quality g-spot vibrators look divine, I don't know if they'd actually be any better.
Good luck!
05/01/2009
The Gigi didn't do much for me, but everyone is different. I do like Ella, but she is a bit flexible, so it depends on your preference. I personally like a decent width when attempting g-spot stimulation, but not too wide because you'll have no room to contract. The Njoy Pure Wand is curved really nice for gspot, but Ella is definitely more economical. There are some cheaper glass g-spot models that you can try as well, but look for that magic curve.
The most important thing is definitely to relax, or try in the shower (easy cleanup and no stress). Ella does no vibrate so you wouldn't have to look for anything waterproof if you go for a dildo, be it glass or silicone. The biggest thing that affects me is being self conscious about having to wash the sheets or have it soak into the mattress, so I got the Fascinator throe, and that helps the anxiety.
The most important thing is definitely to relax, or try in the shower (easy cleanup and no stress). Ella does no vibrate so you wouldn't have to look for anything waterproof if you go for a dildo, be it glass or silicone. The biggest thing that affects me is being self conscious about having to wash the sheets or have it soak into the mattress, so I got the Fascinator throe, and that helps the anxiety.
05/02/2009
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I never thought about getting a Fasinator. How long have you had yours and how well has it lasted? Is it machine washable?
Originally posted by
Renewing Desire
The Gigi didn't do much for me, but everyone is different. I do like Ella, but she is a bit flexible, so it depends on your preference. I personally like a decent width when attempting g-spot stimulation, but not too wide because you'll
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The Gigi didn't do much for me, but everyone is different. I do like Ella, but she is a bit flexible, so it depends on your preference. I personally like a decent width when attempting g-spot stimulation, but not too wide because you'll have no room to contract. The Njoy Pure Wand is curved really nice for gspot, but Ella is definitely more economical. There are some cheaper glass g-spot models that you can try as well, but look for that magic curve.
The most important thing is definitely to relax, or try in the shower (easy cleanup and no stress). Ella does no vibrate so you wouldn't have to look for anything waterproof if you go for a dildo, be it glass or silicone. The biggest thing that affects me is being self conscious about having to wash the sheets or have it soak into the mattress, so I got the Fascinator throe, and that helps the anxiety.
The most important thing is definitely to relax, or try in the shower (easy cleanup and no stress). Ella does no vibrate so you wouldn't have to look for anything waterproof if you go for a dildo, be it glass or silicone. The biggest thing that affects me is being self conscious about having to wash the sheets or have it soak into the mattress, so I got the Fascinator throe, and that helps the anxiety.
05/03/2009
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I love velvety toys and it looks really hot in black.
Originally posted by
Lithaewyn
Definitely invest in the Ella! While she doesn't work for everybody (I still have yet to achieve a g-spot orgasm or squirt with her, but there are other factors that affect this) she has been a miracle for some. Even if she doesn't quite take
...
Definitely invest in the Ella! While she doesn't work for everybody (I still have yet to achieve a g-spot orgasm or squirt with her, but there are other factors that affect this) she has been a miracle for some. Even if she doesn't quite take you there, she definitely targets the g-spot really well, is made of a safe material, and doesn't cost a whole lot.
05/03/2009
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I don't know glass dildos scare me a little I can be very clumsy and I am sure I would drop it. Have you used one? How sturdy are they?
Originally posted by
Tuesday
I agree that a rabbit probably won't do it for you as well as a g-spot dildo or vibrator.
Its essential to be somewhere where you can be free of the fear of peeing. Either have multiple folded towels under you or sit on the edge of the ...
Its essential to be somewhere where you can be free of the fear of peeing. Either have multiple folded towels under you or sit on the edge of the ...
I agree that a rabbit probably won't do it for you as well as a g-spot dildo or vibrator.
Its essential to be somewhere where you can be free of the fear of peeing. Either have multiple folded towels under you or sit on the edge of the tub so it wouldn't matter even if you do pee. As long as you're afraid of peeing you won't be successful.
I also find that it helps to have a little pee in your bladder. It increases sensation. I've only managed a g-gasm on an empty bladder once, but it happens reliably if my bladder isn't empty.
Its essential to be somewhere where you can be free of the fear of peeing. Either have multiple folded towels under you or sit on the edge of the tub so it wouldn't matter even if you do pee. As long as you're afraid of peeing you won't be successful.
I also find that it helps to have a little pee in your bladder. It increases sensation. I've only managed a g-gasm on an empty bladder once, but it happens reliably if my bladder isn't empty.
05/03/2009
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I really loved you sugar drop review and I loved the stand it seems really cute.
Originally posted by
Carrie Ann
Rabbit vibes like you linked to aren't the greatest for g-spot stim, in my opinion. They make you feel full and the beads can feel loverly but I've yet to have a g-spot orgasm from a rabbit.
Glass dildos work well for me, as does the ...
Glass dildos work well for me, as does the ...
Rabbit vibes like you linked to aren't the greatest for g-spot stim, in my opinion. They make you feel full and the beads can feel loverly but I've yet to have a g-spot orgasm from a rabbit.
Glass dildos work well for me, as does the sugar drop. I've found it's much easier to have a g-spot orgasm from thrusting rather than vibration. I've heard good things about the Gigi, though, which gives you a bit of both worlds.
Glass dildos work well for me, as does the sugar drop. I've found it's much easier to have a g-spot orgasm from thrusting rather than vibration. I've heard good things about the Gigi, though, which gives you a bit of both worlds.
05/03/2009
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I did drop it once on a tile floor. It didn't break. They're not that fragile for glass. Now I make sure I always have a firm grip on it though. I might not be so lucky the second time. Even with the breakage risk, glass is worth it.
Originally posted by
Rocky LaFemme
I don't know glass dildos scare me a little I can be very clumsy and I am sure I would drop it. Have you used one? How sturdy are they?
05/03/2009
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Has she tried it on herself? I think that might make a difference. That way she'll be sure to have just the right rhythm.
Originally posted by
Fun Lover
My wife has to be really worked up for the Ella to work on her. If she hasn't already orgasmed or isn't close it isn't much fun for her. Haven't made her squirt yet but still trying.
05/03/2009
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I have been checking out the glass toys and I think I want the Rainbow mega nubby. If it is glass do you think it needs to be curved as well for a g-spot orgasm?
Originally posted by
Tuesday
I did drop it once on a tile floor. It didn't break. They're not that fragile for glass. Now I make sure I always have a firm grip on it though. I might not be so lucky the second time. Even with the breakage risk, glass is worth it.
05/05/2009
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I can envision the bottom of the entrance to my vagina being brutally injured if I tried to use the Rainbow Mega Nubby like that... The problem is that you'd have to sharply angle it to hit your G, and the nubs would be causing a lot of friction to your entrance.
Originally posted by
Rocky LaFemme
I have been checking out the glass toys and I think I want the Rainbow mega nubby. If it is glass do you think it needs to be curved as well for a g-spot orgasm?
Even if I use a smooth, plastic vibrator to hit my g-spot, I can get really sore. Curve is really important.
Definitely go for something curved. Try the G-Spot Gemstone if you're not looking to spend a lot of money.
05/05/2009
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I've been wondering that too. I think the reason people like the rainbow mega nubby so much must be because it reaches the g-spot. I think you could angle it to reach the g-spot. Straight insertable vibrators stimulate the g-spot.
Originally posted by
Rocky LaFemme
I have been checking out the glass toys and I think I want the Rainbow mega nubby. If it is glass do you think it needs to be curved as well for a g-spot orgasm?
The g-spot gemstone looks like it has a pointy tip. Toys with pointy tips irritate me.
05/05/2009
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The handle on the G-Spot Gemstone doesn't look large enough for me. From some of the descriptions it seems so small. I really think I might need something with length to stimulate it myself.
Originally posted by
Lithaewyn
I can envision the bottom of the entrance to my vagina being brutally injured if I tried to use the Rainbow Mega Nubby like that... The problem is that you'd have to sharply angle it to hit your G, and the nubs would be causing a lot of friction
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I can envision the bottom of the entrance to my vagina being brutally injured if I tried to use the Rainbow Mega Nubby like that... The problem is that you'd have to sharply angle it to hit your G, and the nubs would be causing a lot of friction to your entrance.
Even if I use a smooth, plastic vibrator to hit my g-spot, I can get really sore. Curve is really important.
Definitely go for something curved. Try the G-Spot Gemstone if you're not looking to spend a lot of money.
Even if I use a smooth, plastic vibrator to hit my g-spot, I can get really sore. Curve is really important.
Definitely go for something curved. Try the G-Spot Gemstone if you're not looking to spend a lot of money.
05/07/2009
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I know pointy and small does not sound like a great time to me.
Originally posted by
Tuesday
I've been wondering that too. I think the reason people like the rainbow mega nubby so much must be because it reaches the g-spot. I think you could angle it to reach the g-spot. Straight insertable vibrators stimulate the g-spot.
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I've been wondering that too. I think the reason people like the rainbow mega nubby so much must be because it reaches the g-spot. I think you could angle it to reach the g-spot. Straight insertable vibrators stimulate the g-spot.
The g-spot gemstone looks like it has a pointy tip. Toys with pointy tips irritate me.
The g-spot gemstone looks like it has a pointy tip. Toys with pointy tips irritate me.
05/07/2009
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I have experienced many g spot orgasms, in my 10 years of sexual activity, but had never squirted until the last few months. I don't know that the one is necessarily associated with the other.
Originally posted by
Rocky LaFemme
I would like to experience my first pure g-spot orgasm. I get close and I either freak out cause I feel like I am going to pee or I get tired/lazy and add a bullet to my clit and have a nice combo. I want to accomplish this solo before I add a
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I would like to experience my first pure g-spot orgasm. I get close and I either freak out cause I feel like I am going to pee or I get tired/lazy and add a bullet to my clit and have a nice combo. I want to accomplish this solo before I add a partner so I know if I am a squirt or not. I usually cum first with just a clitoral orgasm and then try to move in to g-spot stimulation at most 5 minutes later. So any ideas on toys and technique would be helpful. I do not know if a vibrator or dildo is the best way to go.
10/24/2010
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