Do you see a difference between an older man dating a younger woman and an older woman dating a younger man?

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Do you see a difference between an older man dating a younger woman and an older woman dating a younger man?

mudpie mudpie
Does gender make a difference to you?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
No, they're the same to me.
54  (65%)
Yes, and I'm more accepting of older man/younger woman.
4  (5%)
Yes, and I'm more accepting of older woman/younger man.
3  (4%)
It depends on the individual couple.
20  (24%)
Other
2  (2%)
Total votes: 83
Poll is closed
12/10/2011
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Ms. N Ms. N
They are both fine to me. You can't always help to whom you are attracted.
12/10/2011
Daemonin Daemonin
I don't see a difference. I don't think it matters.
12/10/2011
null null
It definitely depends on the two people involved. The problem isn't so much the physical age as much as the maturity level.
12/10/2011
Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
Usually age isn't an issue in my eyes. I think it's really weird however when you see a 40+ year old man or women with someone 25 or younger of the same or opposite sex. When I was 21-22 I knew a 47 year old women that wanted to be in a serious relationship with me, live together etc. To me that just felt weird and made me very uncomfortable. Probably because I didn't have those types of feelings for her but whatever.
12/11/2011
Moein Moein
I think younger girl is more passionate and need to feels more for protection and sympathy which are availble with older man who is also looking to get back his sexual life with younger girl, so it is more strong relation than older women with younger man.
12/11/2011
chibi1091 chibi1091
I really think it's the same, but of course individual, situational factors matter too.
01/06/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Cookie Monster Mike
Usually age isn't an issue in my eyes. I think it's really weird however when you see a 40+ year old man or women with someone 25 or younger of the same or opposite sex. When I was 21-22 I knew a 47 year old women that wanted to be in a ...
LOL I won't repeat what Arch said because it would be very rude...you see he was 25 and very much in love with a 40 year old woman. He would have loved to marry me and all that!

Still, if you don't want the same things a potential partner does then the age difference isn't the issue...
01/06/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Moein
I think younger girl is more passionate and need to feels more for protection and sympathy which are availble with older man who is also looking to get back his sexual life with younger girl, so it is more strong relation than older women with ...
I respectfully disagree...a younger man may also be desiring protection, stability and sympathy and is also VERY passionate. His sex drive actually equals an older woman's in most cases. LOTS of older women love the intense feeling of virility that having a younger man in her bed brings!

Each relationship is different and unique but in terms of there being a difference in who is older? Not so much difference.
01/06/2012
ddd masturbator(bye all!) ddd masturbator(bye all!)
Quote:
Originally posted by mudpie
Does gender make a difference to you?
I think it truly depends on the age difference. I agree that age is just a number, but I'm not foolish enough to deny that I am more likely to judge couples that have a very noticeable age gap.

Younger men should go for older women... have their sexual peak around the same time! haha

I am uncomfortable seeing couples where the older could be the parent of the younger...
01/15/2012
SexyStuff SexyStuff
Same thing
01/15/2012
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Quote:
Originally posted by mudpie
Does gender make a difference to you?
Overall? ...no.
But sometimes it depends on the couple and how they act around each other.
01/15/2012
Kitka Kitka
I don't see a difference with it, to each their own
01/15/2012
spineyogurt spineyogurt
I dont mind it but I seem to always go for younger girls
01/15/2012
sweet&lush sweet&lush
It's the same thing
02/16/2012
pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by mudpie
Does gender make a difference to you?
I am creeped out by a much older man with a young girl. I dont know why i just am.
02/16/2012
curious kitten curious kitten
No difference as long as the youngest partner is old enough or mature enough to understand their age differences and the effects on their relationships.
02/21/2012
Castielskitten Castielskitten
it makes no diff to me. love is ageless <3
02/22/2012
Lano4ka Lano4ka
Age shouldn't matter and also gender for the same reason: we cant help who we fall in love with.
02/24/2012
fredacarl fredacarl
Quote:
Originally posted by mudpie
Does gender make a difference to you?
No, they're the same to me.
03/02/2012
MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by mudpie
Does gender make a difference to you?
No difference at all....I think its a shame that so many folks put emphasis on one rather than the other
03/19/2012
Chami Chami
I am personally with an older man but i think its fine for the woman to be older. I would rather date an older man but that's just me.
04/23/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Maturity counts for more, which is on a case by case basis. I've seen couples weeks apart who were off balance, and ones years apart which were perfectly balanced maturity wise
05/26/2012
Moniqua Moniqua
For me, I normally prefer an older man for myself. As for what other people choose does not bother me.
05/31/2012
booboo111926 booboo111926
nope all the same
06/04/2012
gloomybear gloomybear
personally i would never date a guy younger than me because i am more mature for my age and cant stand the immaturity but if a woman wants to date a younger guy thats her choice
06/04/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
Quote:
Originally posted by chibi1091
I really think it's the same, but of course individual, situational factors matter too.
I agree.
06/04/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
I definitely see a HUGE difference. I tend to immediately think the older guys are only with the girls because they're younger.
06/06/2012
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by mudpie
Does gender make a difference to you?
some older man younger women vicve versa couples tick me off expeciall when theirs some other underlayingd eal behind it
07/20/2012
Eden062112 Eden062112
Quote:
Originally posted by mudpie
Does gender make a difference to you?
To me I more accept older man/younger woman, but of course it depends on the ammount of the age difference.. I have never been that into a huge age difference either way.
07/20/2012
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