Learning your body first? Or buying a toy...
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I used my fingers and brush handles long before I used toys. Toys did make it more real though, but now that I have toys, I feel I've spoiled myself and don't have as much as a sexual imagination. I also feel that I crave more intensity because the toys I have are no longer good enough. I always want more, and I don't know if that's a good thing or not!
Originally posted by
Dragon
I've been thinking about the content of some of the other threads. It seems to me that some people think that there are a lot of women that can't or never learn to pleasure themselves before they purchase a toy.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I ...
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I ...
I've been thinking about the content of some of the other threads. It seems to me that some people think that there are a lot of women that can't or never learn to pleasure themselves before they purchase a toy.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I think that learning about your own body first and it's pleasures is far more important. Once you have that foundational knowledge you can communicate it to a partner and ENHANCE it with a toy.
To me, the biggest toy is my mind. I'm just not in a sexual mood no matter what when I'm stressed.
Thoughts?
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I think that learning about your own body first and it's pleasures is far more important. Once you have that foundational knowledge you can communicate it to a partner and ENHANCE it with a toy.
To me, the biggest toy is my mind. I'm just not in a sexual mood no matter what when I'm stressed.
Thoughts?
11/01/2010
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Sometimes I get that way, too, but it seems to be cyclical. After a while I'll want something more subtle again.
Originally posted by
Sera
I used my fingers and brush handles long before I used toys. Toys did make it more real though, but now that I have toys, I feel I've spoiled myself and don't have as much as a sexual imagination. I also feel that I crave more intensity because the
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I used my fingers and brush handles long before I used toys. Toys did make it more real though, but now that I have toys, I feel I've spoiled myself and don't have as much as a sexual imagination. I also feel that I crave more intensity because the toys I have are no longer good enough. I always want more, and I don't know if that's a good thing or not!
11/01/2010
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I definatly learned on my own b4 a toy!
Originally posted by
Dragon
I've been thinking about the content of some of the other threads. It seems to me that some people think that there are a lot of women that can't or never learn to pleasure themselves before they purchase a toy.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I ...
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I ...
I've been thinking about the content of some of the other threads. It seems to me that some people think that there are a lot of women that can't or never learn to pleasure themselves before they purchase a toy.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I think that learning about your own body first and it's pleasures is far more important. Once you have that foundational knowledge you can communicate it to a partner and ENHANCE it with a toy.
To me, the biggest toy is my mind. I'm just not in a sexual mood no matter what when I'm stressed.
Thoughts?
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I think that learning about your own body first and it's pleasures is far more important. Once you have that foundational knowledge you can communicate it to a partner and ENHANCE it with a toy.
To me, the biggest toy is my mind. I'm just not in a sexual mood no matter what when I'm stressed.
Thoughts?
11/08/2010
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I learned how to pleasure myself with a toy. I discovered my shower head at a very young age. I know my body fairly well and I don't think that was a hinderance. I absolutely love toys, but I don't always use them. I think the issue is more whether or not people feel free to pleasure themselves. In my opinion however you do it, you are still learning things about your body. I am learning and I am nearly 30.
Originally posted by
Dragon
I've been thinking about the content of some of the other threads. It seems to me that some people think that there are a lot of women that can't or never learn to pleasure themselves before they purchase a toy.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I ...
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I ...
I've been thinking about the content of some of the other threads. It seems to me that some people think that there are a lot of women that can't or never learn to pleasure themselves before they purchase a toy.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I think that learning about your own body first and it's pleasures is far more important. Once you have that foundational knowledge you can communicate it to a partner and ENHANCE it with a toy.
To me, the biggest toy is my mind. I'm just not in a sexual mood no matter what when I'm stressed.
Thoughts?
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I think that learning about your own body first and it's pleasures is far more important. Once you have that foundational knowledge you can communicate it to a partner and ENHANCE it with a toy.
To me, the biggest toy is my mind. I'm just not in a sexual mood no matter what when I'm stressed.
Thoughts?
11/08/2010
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I started exploring my own body when I was around 12-13. I think it is a natural thing to do before you venture into the realm of toys. That was a good 5 years before I even got my first toy.
Originally posted by
Dragon
I've been thinking about the content of some of the other threads. It seems to me that some people think that there are a lot of women that can't or never learn to pleasure themselves before they purchase a toy.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I ...
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I ...
I've been thinking about the content of some of the other threads. It seems to me that some people think that there are a lot of women that can't or never learn to pleasure themselves before they purchase a toy.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I think that learning about your own body first and it's pleasures is far more important. Once you have that foundational knowledge you can communicate it to a partner and ENHANCE it with a toy.
To me, the biggest toy is my mind. I'm just not in a sexual mood no matter what when I'm stressed.
Thoughts?
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I think that learning about your own body first and it's pleasures is far more important. Once you have that foundational knowledge you can communicate it to a partner and ENHANCE it with a toy.
To me, the biggest toy is my mind. I'm just not in a sexual mood no matter what when I'm stressed.
Thoughts?
As far as the mind being the biggest sex toy, I can definitely relate. Honestly, I get more turned on sometimes by reading erotica or writing it. I use it as my own personal form of foreplay when I do not have a partner.
01/09/2011
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I think sometimes a toy helps you learn your body. It did for me.
Originally posted by
Dragon
I've been thinking about the content of some of the other threads. It seems to me that some people think that there are a lot of women that can't or never learn to pleasure themselves before they purchase a toy.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I ...
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I ...
I've been thinking about the content of some of the other threads. It seems to me that some people think that there are a lot of women that can't or never learn to pleasure themselves before they purchase a toy.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I think that learning about your own body first and it's pleasures is far more important. Once you have that foundational knowledge you can communicate it to a partner and ENHANCE it with a toy.
To me, the biggest toy is my mind. I'm just not in a sexual mood no matter what when I'm stressed.
Thoughts?
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I think that learning about your own body first and it's pleasures is far more important. Once you have that foundational knowledge you can communicate it to a partner and ENHANCE it with a toy.
To me, the biggest toy is my mind. I'm just not in a sexual mood no matter what when I'm stressed.
Thoughts?
01/13/2011
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I had a friend at one point, who never had an orgasm and didnt know what her girlie parts even looked like - actually, she never saw any vagina at all. I told her to take a small mirror, and look, and feel. And that she cannot expect someone else to make her cum and give her pleasure, if she doesnt know how to make herself cum and satisfy herself.
Originally posted by
Dragon
I've been thinking about the content of some of the other threads. It seems to me that some people think that there are a lot of women that can't or never learn to pleasure themselves before they purchase a toy.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I ...
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I ...
I've been thinking about the content of some of the other threads. It seems to me that some people think that there are a lot of women that can't or never learn to pleasure themselves before they purchase a toy.
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I think that learning about your own body first and it's pleasures is far more important. Once you have that foundational knowledge you can communicate it to a partner and ENHANCE it with a toy.
To me, the biggest toy is my mind. I'm just not in a sexual mood no matter what when I'm stressed.
Thoughts?
Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I think that learning about your own body first and it's pleasures is far more important. Once you have that foundational knowledge you can communicate it to a partner and ENHANCE it with a toy.
To me, the biggest toy is my mind. I'm just not in a sexual mood no matter what when I'm stressed.
Thoughts?
I learned my body first, then got a toy after I met my husband. He helped me explore the world of toys- but i explored and learned myself first.
You have to know what makes you happy first, before you can expect anyone or anything to make u happy.
02/28/2011
When I first started exploring my own body and playing with myself I was too young to buy toys of course. I didn't actually start using any toys until after I was married to my husband for a couple of years. By that time, I know my body quite well and I know what I need and what I can take. The toys seem to enhance the experience now and just make it more fun.
02/28/2011
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Same here. I find that penetrative toys are best for me because fingers are only so long, but I always prefer my own fingers to any kind of clitoral vibe. I actually just got the Hitachi and .. no orgasms yet. I actually ended up turning it off and finishing off with my fingers, haha. I just prefer more of a rubbing than a vibrating sensation. It all depends on the person, I suppose. I sure do wish I could relate to all the fuss about vibes, though!
Originally posted by
Tart
No toy has been able to get me off harder than my own fingers. I think that is both a blessing and a curse. I love the vibes I have had in the past, but they barely slipped under the radar. Next on my list: Hitachi. If that doesn't make me cum
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No toy has been able to get me off harder than my own fingers. I think that is both a blessing and a curse. I love the vibes I have had in the past, but they barely slipped under the radar. Next on my list: Hitachi. If that doesn't make me cum buckets I don't know what will.
03/03/2011
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