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Whats to old for you??
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I agree with this, with a couple of caveats.
Originally posted by
Chilipepper
Dead. No matter how old he is, if he's dead it won't matter.
I think that too old is when one or both of the partners are uncomfortable with the difference. My significant other and I are 18 years apart, but we're both okay with it (I am, more than he is). Any more, though, and he would have been ill at ease about it.
04/12/2011
I probably wouldn't date someone who is older than 60.
Main reason - they need to be able to keep up with me sexually.
But also, they have already experienced the things I'm yet to go through so I don't want them to be too far ahead of me - it can ruin a relationship when ya not both on the same emotional level or at very different stages in ya lives.
So far, I'm yet to meet a guy in his 70's, 80's or 90's who I had any kind of connection with. I'm not interested in being with someone cause they may be rich. That just doesn't float my boat.
Main reason - they need to be able to keep up with me sexually.
But also, they have already experienced the things I'm yet to go through so I don't want them to be too far ahead of me - it can ruin a relationship when ya not both on the same emotional level or at very different stages in ya lives.
So far, I'm yet to meet a guy in his 70's, 80's or 90's who I had any kind of connection with. I'm not interested in being with someone cause they may be rich. That just doesn't float my boat.
04/12/2011
Older than my parents would be odd for me, especially since they're both around 60. I agree with Shellz on why I wouldn't date anyone that old. If my parents were like 40, I'm not sure whether I would lower my limit to 40 as well... That's tough.
My guy now is 11 years older. He's good and that's all that matters to me
My guy now is 11 years older. He's good and that's all that matters to me
04/13/2011
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I am 48. I am looking for a women between 35-60. I would prefer 40-55. But, there may be some one else out there. And, it would never be a gal younger than 35-40. Unless it was a one night stand or a fling and she proves to me that she really wants me. I doubt that ever happening. But never say never. Just extremely unlikely.
Originally posted by
CarmenGore262
Whyta is to old for you? 40?50?
09/30/2011
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"I think that too old is when one or both of the partners are uncomfortable with the difference."
Originally posted by
Annemarie
I agree with this, with a couple of caveats.
I think that too old is when one or both of the partners are uncomfortable with the difference. My significant other and I are 18 years apart, but we're both okay with it (I am, more ...
I think that too old is when one or both of the partners are uncomfortable with the difference. My significant other and I are 18 years apart, but we're both okay with it (I am, more ...
I agree with this, with a couple of caveats.
I think that too old is when one or both of the partners are uncomfortable with the difference. My significant other and I are 18 years apart, but we're both okay with it (I am, more than he is). Any more, though, and he would have been ill at ease about it.
I think that too old is when one or both of the partners are uncomfortable with the difference. My significant other and I are 18 years apart, but we're both okay with it (I am, more than he is). Any more, though, and he would have been ill at ease about it.
Ditto to this. My imaginary dream guy was always 5-8 years older than me. But then I met my current boyfriend and that rule fell away: I assumed he was 30, like the mutual friends I met him through, but he was actually 36 at the time (13 years older than me). And the 13 doesn't bother me at all.
Human beings are so versatile that it's hard to set a rule like that. I've met some men in their 40s (20+ years older than me) who I found very attractive, though I haven't dated them. I wouldn't rule them out just because of age, though.
10/01/2011
This all depends on how old you are. For someone in their 20's, the "cut off" age will likely be much younger than it is for someone who is in their 30's, 40's, 50's and beyond. My man and I are 14 years apart, and it does not present a problem for us. I am in my 30's and he is in his 40's.
I once heard a formula, I think it was half your age plus 7, or minus 7, I can't remember. While entertaining, I don't think such a "rule" should be a determining factor. Just as someone said upthread, it's only too much of an age difference if it's illegal or one of the partners is uncomfortable with it.
I once heard a formula, I think it was half your age plus 7, or minus 7, I can't remember. While entertaining, I don't think such a "rule" should be a determining factor. Just as someone said upthread, it's only too much of an age difference if it's illegal or one of the partners is uncomfortable with it.
10/01/2011
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