I love it sometimes for the mental satisfaction that I'm pleasing him but I don't like having it expected of me. When guys are forceful about it ( Like shoving your head down there like, he has a hard on so you are obligated to suck it) I hate it though. it depends on the situation. I dont mean to sound selfish but I am much more likely to do it willingly if the person is a kind lover and they reciprocate pleasure, so that I don't get worked up from it, then have him just flop over and go to sleep. I have been with some men who simply expect pleasure from women, and I think multiple experiences with these men is why SOME women dislike it- there are as many different reasons as there are people in this world, though, and of course some girls 'just dont' like it.
Do women enjoy giving men blowjobs?
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I don't have TMJ but do have a very narrow, small mouth and my husband is very wide and long. This can cause me problems so I've tried different methods. There is a type of massage you can do on him called lingam. I recently found this looking for new forms of massage treatment. It's a form of tantric massage and there is a fair amount of information on the net. I tried this for the first time this week and was a big hit. I started with the massage with intervals of licking the tip and at the base of the hood. Give it a try. We found it to be a bit more erotic than a simple bj.
Originally posted by
Carrie Ann
I love giving blow jobs. My TMJ makes it hard these days, though, since I can barely open my mouth wide enough. *sigh* It's depressing.
08/28/2009
I do really enjoy giving my current boyfriend blow jobs or hand jobs. The problem is sometimes I feel pressured to do it, even if my boyfriend doesn't pressure me at all. It's residual from sexual assault back in college where I was forced to go down on this guy while I was intoxicated. It took me a very long time before I would willingly go down on a guy again. When I was still trying to get up the courage, my ex kept pressuring me to go down on him.
Now that I'm in a healthy relationship there is no pressure, but I can still imagine it sometimes. But overall, I like going down on my boyfriend. :-D
Now that I'm in a healthy relationship there is no pressure, but I can still imagine it sometimes. But overall, I like going down on my boyfriend. :-D
08/28/2009
I like it giving my partner head. I don't really mind that he's forceful, since that's how he is in personality, but sometimes I just wish I could give him head without him going crazy.
I know for him, he's aggressive about it because he's really enjoying it, which is why I do like giving him head. I like the feeling of him being at the mercy of my mouth and tongue. Haha!
Giving him head is not something I always want to do. I don't like the feeling of being pressured to do it- like most of the women on this poll are saying- I simply like to be able to when I want to or when he needs it. If he's satisfied, I'm happy.
I know for him, he's aggressive about it because he's really enjoying it, which is why I do like giving him head. I like the feeling of him being at the mercy of my mouth and tongue. Haha!
Giving him head is not something I always want to do. I don't like the feeling of being pressured to do it- like most of the women on this poll are saying- I simply like to be able to when I want to or when he needs it. If he's satisfied, I'm happy.
08/31/2009
In the everyday scheme of things I hate it. It is just obnoxious to me for some reason. Now, every now and again I get a wild hair up my ass and I have to just go for it. I all but attack when those few and far between moments hit.
I remember once after having my first daughter (I was preggo with my second) I attacked him in the kitchen, pushing him against the fridge. The whole thing lasted under three minutes and it was SO. FREAKING. HOT.
So, I don't always hate it, but usually I don't like it. I do it though because I know he just loves it, and I can't really say no anyway.
I remember once after having my first daughter (I was preggo with my second) I attacked him in the kitchen, pushing him against the fridge. The whole thing lasted under three minutes and it was SO. FREAKING. HOT.
So, I don't always hate it, but usually I don't like it. I do it though because I know he just loves it, and I can't really say no anyway.
09/07/2009
Purple Sexy
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Give her some time. Try to start with her sucking on lollipops sexually and let her know that it is basically the same. Then while she blows you, you can finger her pussy so it's hot & wet for when your cock gets down there.
Originally posted by
Boink
My partner/fiancee doesn't like giving blowjobs at all, so I don't ask them of her. We still manage to have a very fulfilling and fun sex life. (It should also be noted that she does enjoy watching me go down on strap-on dildos when she
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My partner/fiancee doesn't like giving blowjobs at all, so I don't ask them of her. We still manage to have a very fulfilling and fun sex life. (It should also be noted that she does enjoy watching me go down on strap-on dildos when she wears them and I love it too...so if anyone likes giving the blowjobs in our relationship it's probably me, go figure!)
09/10/2009
Jonutsu
I don't really like doing it much. Seriously? Just the thought of a guy shooting that... goo... in my mouth is nasty. And it tastes pretty nasty too. But my boyfriend *really* likes it when I give him head, so I do it to be nice. Swallowing... Eew. Only on super speshul occasions (birthday and just before he left the country for a month to study abroad).
Occasionally I almost kinda like giving him head; apparently I'm rather adept at it, and I do so enjoy seeing him squirm like he does. So it's become a bit of a regularity, maybe every other time we get randy or so. But overall I mostly do it because he really wants it. Sometimes it doesn't bother me and other times it's just kinda gross. ((It's still "down there" for me))
Occasionally I almost kinda like giving him head; apparently I'm rather adept at it, and I do so enjoy seeing him squirm like he does. So it's become a bit of a regularity, maybe every other time we get randy or so. But overall I mostly do it because he really wants it. Sometimes it doesn't bother me and other times it's just kinda gross. ((It's still "down there" for me))
10/02/2009
It turns me on to no end to see my boyfriend so turned on with blowjobs. Usually, I have to do a little somethin' somethin' for myself afterward.
However, I have had one ex that I couldn't stand his taste. It wasn't foul or anything, just strange to me. I LOVE my current boyfriend's taste. I read somewhere this has to do with chemistry or something.
However, I have had one ex that I couldn't stand his taste. It wasn't foul or anything, just strange to me. I LOVE my current boyfriend's taste. I read somewhere this has to do with chemistry or something.
10/25/2009
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Give your self over and relax. Your taste is not always the best either - but I'm guessing your boyfriend isn't complaining about it. It's all about PMA - decide your going to like it and you will!
Originally posted by
Mari
I don't really like doing it much. Seriously? Just the thought of a guy shooting that... goo... in my mouth is nasty. And it tastes pretty nasty too. But my boyfriend *really* likes it when I give him head, so I do it to be nice. Swallowing...
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I don't really like doing it much. Seriously? Just the thought of a guy shooting that... goo... in my mouth is nasty. And it tastes pretty nasty too. But my boyfriend *really* likes it when I give him head, so I do it to be nice. Swallowing... Eew. Only on super speshul occasions (birthday and just before he left the country for a month to study abroad).
Occasionally I almost kinda like giving him head; apparently I'm rather adept at it, and I do so enjoy seeing him squirm like he does. So it's become a bit of a regularity, maybe every other time we get randy or so. But overall I mostly do it because he really wants it. Sometimes it doesn't bother me and other times it's just kinda gross. ((It's still "down there" for me))
Occasionally I almost kinda like giving him head; apparently I'm rather adept at it, and I do so enjoy seeing him squirm like he does. So it's become a bit of a regularity, maybe every other time we get randy or so. But overall I mostly do it because he really wants it. Sometimes it doesn't bother me and other times it's just kinda gross. ((It's still "down there" for me))
My wife just unexpectedly came gushing on me today - I lapped up her orgasm and savored the experience just as she does for me! We're just too into pleasing one another to sweat the small stuff.
11/15/2009
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Thaks for your input. It has been fun listening to everyones opinion on this subject. thanks...
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
Give your self over and relax. Your taste is not always the best either - but I'm guessing your boyfriend isn't complaining about it. It's all about PMA - decide your going to like it and you will!
My wife just unexpectedly came ...
My wife just unexpectedly came ...
Give your self over and relax. Your taste is not always the best either - but I'm guessing your boyfriend isn't complaining about it. It's all about PMA - decide your going to like it and you will!
My wife just unexpectedly came gushing on me today - I lapped up her orgasm and savored the experience just as she does for me! We're just too into pleasing one another to sweat the small stuff.
My wife just unexpectedly came gushing on me today - I lapped up her orgasm and savored the experience just as she does for me! We're just too into pleasing one another to sweat the small stuff.
11/16/2009
Some days I love it and some days I hate it. I tend to get jaw cramps or complete lockjaw while going down on him, these are times I loathe him having a penis and refuse to ever suck his cock again... yet, the mood will strike days later and I'll be thoroughly enjoying running my tongue all over his manhood.
11/16/2009
I didn't vote because there wasn't an option that really applied to me. I give my man blow jobs not because I love it or that I feel like I have to - but I know that he really enjoys it and appreciates it (I know because he returns the favor beautifully). So I guess I at least like giving them - because of his reactions and his gratitude later on..
11/16/2009
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Well we will all pray for better days....hehehehehe thanks
Originally posted by
Sleeping Dreamer
Some days I love it and some days I hate it. I tend to get jaw cramps or complete lockjaw while going down on him, these are times I loathe him having a penis and refuse to ever suck his cock again... yet, the mood will strike days later and I'll
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Some days I love it and some days I hate it. I tend to get jaw cramps or complete lockjaw while going down on him, these are times I loathe him having a penis and refuse to ever suck his cock again... yet, the mood will strike days later and I'll be thoroughly enjoying running my tongue all over his manhood.
11/17/2009
I love giving my BF head, 1. he has always complimented me on how well I do it , which is wonderful to hear! 2. I love pleasing him, even if I get nothing in return that day I just love making him feel good 3. I personally think it is a very intimate act, it makes me feel close to him. 4. I just like doing it, dont know why I just do.
11/21/2009
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Crystal Girl - I sensed this change in my wife. As a younger person oral sex was more reciprocation for me going down on her. But since she decided to take control of her sensuality, she recognizes the power being able to deliver satisfaction and it turns her on when my body shudders in a whole body orgasm as a result of her skill!
Originally posted by
SexyTigerX
I used to hate it, I feel like I had to do it.
Now, I,m loving it, because I'm the one who wants to go down on him. It's my power!
Now, I,m loving it, because I'm the one who wants to go down on him. It's my power!
02/02/2010
I think I scared Arch with my enthusiasm for giving a blow job...
Sigel loves a blowjob and he was my first lover. I loved the way it made him feel and love the taste ect. so I would do it pretty much whenever he asked. My first real shock was learning that some women hate oral sex and refuse except on birthdays, anniversaries or other "special" days. many a guy has gotten really envious when joking my guys about getting head as a birthday gift. The first time someone asked Sigel if he was going to get a blowjob for his birthday he blinked and looked confused. he said somewhat surprised, "Why would that be a gift? She does that whenever I ask...I'm getting dinner tonight, THAT I have to wait for!" The guy who asked the question felt like a jackass and then was intensely jealous!
Sigel loves a blowjob and he was my first lover. I loved the way it made him feel and love the taste ect. so I would do it pretty much whenever he asked. My first real shock was learning that some women hate oral sex and refuse except on birthdays, anniversaries or other "special" days. many a guy has gotten really envious when joking my guys about getting head as a birthday gift. The first time someone asked Sigel if he was going to get a blowjob for his birthday he blinked and looked confused. he said somewhat surprised, "Why would that be a gift? She does that whenever I ask...I'm getting dinner tonight, THAT I have to wait for!" The guy who asked the question felt like a jackass and then was intensely jealous!
02/23/2010