Do you ever feel you're not good enough?

sexykiss sexykiss
like you are not good enough for your partner
06/13/2012
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Envy Envy
All the time.
06/13/2012
Beck Beck
I personally don't. But if you do, you need to talk about it with someone. Your partner is your partner for a reason. I'm sure they love you! You need to work on loving yourself if you don't think you are good enough for someone. Loving yourself really helps someone love you more.
06/13/2012
Arch600 Arch600
I feel that way sometimes. She is such an incredible person and I sometimes feel like I can't possibly live up to being the person she deserves to be with. I think it can be a positive force that drives me to be the best husband I can be and treat her as well as I can.
06/13/2012
Ansley Ansley
Every once in a blue moon, but I have some pretty heavy experiences in our past to look back on and realize that if he didn't love me, if he didn't care about me then he wouldn't have done [x]. You know?
06/13/2012
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Arch600
I feel that way sometimes. She is such an incredible person and I sometimes feel like I can't possibly live up to being the person she deserves to be with. I think it can be a positive force that drives me to be the best husband I can be and ... More
That's a really good way of thinking about it. The person you're with should challenge you to do and be the best that you can.
06/13/2012
Dixiemomma Dixiemomma
we've been put through the gauntlet in our relationship, and we've stuck together through it all. and any time i start to doubt myself i swear its like he can read my mind and he holds me and reassures be that he's completely head over heels with me and theres nothing i could do wrong and (as he put it just last night) he's a million percent mine hehe so yes talk to you significant other about that and let them be there to reassure you.
06/13/2012
js250 js250
Yes, there have been times that I have felt like that--but there also have been about an equal amount of times I felt he was not good enough for me as well. I think some of this feeling could be normal for some people and can be used in a positive manner. It motivates me to better myself as a person and be a good partner.
06/13/2012
LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
I feel that way often, because I've been single for 7 years...It makes me think that guys just aren't at all interested in me. I'm ill a lot, and I just don't think any guy is willing to sit by my side through all this crap.
06/14/2012
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
I personally don't. But if you do, you need to talk about it with someone. Your partner is your partner for a reason. I'm sure they love you! You need to work on loving yourself if you don't think you are good enough for someone. Loving ... More
I did for a long time until I came to the same realization as Beck. For goodness sake my partners are not fools and I trust their opinions about everything in my life...shouldn't I trust that I am good enough for them, since they firmly believe that I am?
They know my "faults" and love me in spite of or even because of them, so maybe I can look at myself through their eyes until my vision clears and I can see myself clearly.
06/14/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Nope, since she loves me because of who I am, flaws and all
06/17/2012
MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
Every single day
07/06/2012
thornrose thornrose
All the time but I am his first girlfriend and he my first boyfriend so at lest we don't have any one to compare to or it could be worse. We do love and care about each other it just there are time when you over think and that goes in to your mind.
07/28/2012
LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
Quote:
Originally posted by sexykiss
like you are not good enough for your partner
most of the time
08/16/2012
Rossie Rossie
I never feel that way.
08/16/2012
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Sometimes, but I have a mental disorder that increases that feeling. My partners know about it and help me when it is really bothering me.
08/17/2012
Mika Way Mika Way
Once in a while when my mental disorders get in the way, but generally I think we complete each other perfectly. And he does too!
08/17/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
My partner and I both have strengths and faults.

Neither of us keep score.
08/17/2012
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