Did you masturbate more or less after you got married?

Passionate Pastor Passionate Pastor
This poll is for us married couples here at EF. How did marriage change your practice of masturbation?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I masturbated a lot before marriage but slowed down after I got married.
23  (22%)
I masturbated a lot before marriage but I increased after I got married.
5  (5%)
I masturbated a lot before marriage and did not change after I got married.
35  (34%)
I masturbated some before marriage but slowed down after I got married.
5  (5%)
I masturbated some before marriage but I increased after I got married.
12  (12%)
I masturbated some before marriage and did not change after I got married.
9  (9%)
I did not masturbate before marriage but started to after I got married.
10  (10%)
I did not masturbate before marriage and still don't after getting married.
2  (2%)
I have never heard of masturbation, what is it?
3  (3%)
Total votes: 104
Poll is closed
06/05/2010
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
What changed the level of all sexual activity for me has been age. Happily my encounters now are more varied & interesting.
06/05/2010
Ciao. Ciao.
I won't vote in the poll since I'm not married yet (will be in August though). I have, however, been in the same relationship for 7 1/2 years...so I figure I can probably contribute since I practically am married for all practical purposes. My masturbation declined slightly (but not greatly) post-being in a serious long term relationship. My sex drive in general has decreased as well...so that has some to do with it, but obviously being with a partner allows me to be more sexually active in other ways, so there's not as much of a need.
06/06/2010
Chilipepper Chilipepper
I'm post marriage, so I voted since I've been in one.

Solo was the only sex I had in marriage (which increased from my single Life). He fooled me into believing his libido was normal, and he kept making excuses our first year, then it went into "IT'S YOUR FAULT! YOU'RE SABOTAGING ME! WHY ARE YOU GETTING WORKED UP ABOUT A GENITAL SNEEZE ANYWAY????"

Teach your daughters self-esteem and confidence so they won't end up like me and marry a testosterone-challenge d mama's boy looking for a substitute mama. (Did I mention his mother fixation?)
06/06/2010
Fun Lover Fun Lover
For me not much has changed. But since I introduced my wife to sex toys it has increased for her.
06/06/2010
shepegs shepegs
Does it matter? Masturbation is fun!
06/07/2010
Sera Sera
I masturbated some before marriage, but with Jonathan, I desire him all of the time and it's hard not to!
07/30/2010
Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
I definitely wanked more before my partner and I moved in together (not married but together going on 9 years so, hey, the paper is a technicality!).

Now, I tend to wank only if we're too busy to have sex or if I need stress relief or sleep and he's not around.
07/30/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
I'm post marriage, so I voted since I've been in one.

Solo was the only sex I had in marriage (which increased from my single Life). He fooled me into believing his libido was normal, and he kept making excuses our first year, then it ... More
Oh, honey. It just breaks my heart to hear how badly you were treated by this milquetoast.

I'm really hoping you are going on to bigger and better things.

HUGS!
07/30/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
I've always had a very high sex drive and we enjoy mutual masturbation and alone time. All three of us have an amazing capacity for pleasure so masturbation, for us, is very important and doesn't detract from shared sex.
07/30/2010
Sammi Sammi
I did it a lot before we got married, and still do. A lot of it for us I think has been our comfort level, plus the toys, and now the fact that my libido is going through the roof.
07/30/2010
NightNight NightNight
I'm in a situation where, for considerable stretches of time, the only sort of sex I can have with my husband is mutual masturbation. So I do that and masturbate solo.
I probably got myself off with the same or similar frequency before we married or even met.
07/31/2010
B8trDude B8trDude
Masturbation increased in direct proportion to the amount (or lack) of sex from my ex.
08/06/2010
Brian Brian
I masturbated a lot before marriage and still do to some degree but don't get the chance to nearly as often now.
08/08/2010
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
I'm post marriage, so I voted since I've been in one.

Solo was the only sex I had in marriage (which increased from my single Life). He fooled me into believing his libido was normal, and he kept making excuses our first year, then it ... More
Chilipepper and I are often in the same boat on issues like this - while I did have some sex while I was married, it wasn't much and it wasn't good. I definitely masturbated more and more into that relationship.
08/08/2010
Lavender*Moon Lavender*Moon
Nothing changed for me. I'm still a "if I'm in the mood and no one around" masturbator. I really thought that I would slow down a bit, but 9 years later and I think I'm on the threshold of masturbating more....
09/04/2010
Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
I didn't have toys before I was married and I have never really liked to masturbate with my hands, so I definitely masturbate more since I married -- even though my husband and I have remained sexually active the whole time (partner sex ~3 - 7 times per week).

LOL at the last option on your poll!
09/04/2010
SydVicious SydVicious
Quote:
Originally posted by Selective Sensualist
I didn't have toys before I was married and I have never really liked to masturbate with my hands, so I definitely masturbate more since I married -- even though my husband and I have remained sexually active the whole time (partner sex ~3 - 7 ... More
Pretty much the same for me.
09/04/2010
DragonEyes DragonEyes
I was never married but I was with the same person for almost 8 years. Never masturbated while I was with him, just didn't have the desire. Now we're split up and I'm on a mission to get in touch with my sexual side that I've been missing all these years.
09/04/2010
iceman681 iceman681
dont it there times while reading this post
  •   (1)
    I am personally offended by this
09/14/2010
Sensual husband Sensual husband
I have really slowed down when it comes to masterbating because my wife and I have a great sex life and we help take care of each other needs.
09/14/2010
gone77 gone77
Quote:
Originally posted by iceman681
dont it there times while reading this post
Let's keep posts relevant and respectful of the community, shall we?
09/15/2010
iceman681 iceman681
Quote:
Originally posted by gone77
Let's keep posts relevant and respectful of the community, shall we?
sorry for the exaggeration of my post.
09/15/2010
Mr. E Mr. E
Still masturbate, but not as often, we tend to give each other a hand!
10/10/2010
ReadyAllTheTime ReadyAllTheTime
He don't want to have sex as much as me now
10/13/2010
pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by Passionate Pastor
This poll is for us married couples here at EF. How did marriage change your practice of masturbation?
My husband loves it when i masterbate
11/08/2010
ScottA ScottA
If you're talking about "masturbate to climax" probably less, but if you're talking about any manual stimulation of the genitals by myself or my partner it would be more.
11/09/2010
Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Does masturbating for you partner count? Or masturbating while getting pegged? In that case, I don't know....it could be a wash.
01/10/2011
viciouschristine viciouschristine
Marriage changed nothing about my sex life, as my husband and I had already been living together for three years. I still masturbate several times a week, and he still gently teases me about having my Sunday afternoon "nap" while he is at work.
03/13/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
didn't change.
07/15/2011
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