Not getting any

Just Jen Just Jen
For some reason, my man has gone from wanting sex all the time to never wanting it. He's 32 and I'm 29. What gives?
08/06/2010
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Have you asked him? You may have already tried most of this stuff - but...

Is there something he's been wanting to try that you've been reluctant to do - maybe give it a try?

Is there something he really loves like some special perfume or lingerie - entice him.

Have more non-sexual embraces - rub his shoulders and/or back.

I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt that he's just distracted or maybe feeling like he's in a rut - so mix it up. Hopefully it's nothing more serious. Good luck!
08/06/2010
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
If it were me I'd simply ask. But just like in women, mens hormones can fluctuate with age affecting his libido, as an outside stresses from work, etc. Have there been any big changes in your life that could be distracting him or putting additional stresses on him? Any new medications or even new major diet changes? All of these things can affect libido.
08/06/2010
Just Jen Just Jen
I ask. He says nothing is wrong, but who knows. Maybe my new toys will get him in the mood... They were delivered today!!
08/06/2010
kck kck
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Originally posted by Just Jen
I ask. He says nothing is wrong, but who knows. Maybe my new toys will get him in the mood... They were delivered today!!
Woohoo! Toys are always a turn-on for my guy. Have fun!
08/06/2010
Kayla Kayla
Has he been under stress lately? Job stress? School? Family?

Having stress in my life always kills my sex drive.
08/07/2010
deltalima deltalima
He could also be coming to that age for men when they start to think about families and whatnot, and not just about the physical part of the relationship.
08/08/2010
Miss Naughty Kitty Miss Naughty Kitty
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Originally posted by Just Jen
For some reason, my man has gone from wanting sex all the time to never wanting it. He's 32 and I'm 29. What gives?
I'm kinda in the same boat, it sucks. I assume that hes just really tired been working a lot.
08/08/2010
Lavender*Moon Lavender*Moon
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Originally posted by Miss Naughty Kitty
I'm kinda in the same boat, it sucks. I assume that hes just really tired been working a lot.
I'm right there with you. He says he's just tired from work (he works 12 hour graveyard shifts 3-5 times a week). But it really sucks only having sex once a week (and that's with me doing ALL the work)! If I were you, I'd look at things that may have changed in his life (new job/promotion, someone pressuring him for kids, etc.). "Little" changes can sometimes have huge effects on libido.
09/04/2010
usmcwife99 usmcwife99
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Originally posted by Lavender*Moon
I'm right there with you. He says he's just tired from work (he works 12 hour graveyard shifts 3-5 times a week). But it really sucks only having sex once a week (and that's with me doing ALL the work)! If I were you, I'd look at ... More
Yes, thats true.
10/10/2010
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