Not in the mood

Akira Akira
What do you do if your boyfriend is in the mood and you're not?
05/26/2011
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Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
Ahhh . . . that scenario.

One that I'm all too familiar with.

Sometimes there are times where you don't think you're in the mood, but with a little TLC, you can be. It happens to me all the time.

There are also some arousal gels on here, such as Start It Up! by Cal Exotics, which I know are great to get you stimulated.

Other than that, I try to do whatever I can to make myself feel sexier, or more in the mood. I've been taking the herb Damiana, and it took my sex drive from 0 to 50 pretty quickly.

I've also tried little games, such as 52 Weeks of Naughty Nights, and making love coupons.
06/05/2011
Jul!a Jul!a
I tell him right up front. If I think I can get into the mood I'll do what I can to do that, but if I'm just not up for it I tell him so. I don't mind him taking care of himself if I'm not up to helping him out.
06/06/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Akira
What do you do if your boyfriend is in the mood and you're not?
I usually tease him and maybe put on some porn or something sexy to wear and try to get him more into the mood. We have used an arousal gel also to get him more into things if he isn't as much into the mood.
06/06/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
just tell him
06/06/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
Usually I'm the one who has trouble getting in the mood, which isn't all too often. But if he's ever not in the mood, or not showing the signs, all I have to do is step out of my clothes and it's an instant boner for him.

I'll also tease him or start gently massaging his junk and lightly scratching his body with my nails. It drives him crazy!
06/06/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
Taking a bath together works too
06/06/2011
Ansley Ansley
I have sex with him anyway. I'll get into it eventually.
06/06/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
The right partner has the ability to get me in the mood no matter what - unless I have a migraine. Unfortunately an orgasm fails to cure a migraine like it does for a headache
Just makes it 10 times worse.
06/07/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
It depends. If My Man wants to have sex and I really don't feel like it, or am not feeling well (in which case he usually won't ask. He knows full blown migraines put me out of the mood. But, if the headache is just starting or starting to ease, we both know an orgasm will help.) or am preoccupied by something I think might interfere with my enjoyment of the sex, I simply say I am not in the mood and give him a "rain check" with a definite time of when we will have sex. Say, "How about this evening." Or "I think tomorrow morning would work." He has the option of jerking off, while I hold him and urge him on to orgasm.

If I am feeling OK, but just am not in a mood a little, I will often offer him a blow job to tide him over. Or tell him he can jerk off and I'll hold him or talk dirty to him and I often end up helping.

I have a really high sex drive, so this doesn't happen often. Maybe once every 3 or 4 months. Sunday morning I woke up to pee at 4:00 AM and he wanted to fuck. I was SO tired (that doesn't usually stop me, but I was really tired) so I told him to just let me lie down for a few minutes. We slept for 2 1/2 more hours then had sex, happily.
06/07/2011
LittleA LittleA
He might not be in the mood, but his cock will be if you focus on that. Give his other brain some stimulation and he'll come around.
11/03/2011
BlackxxxRose BlackxxxRose
I would cry. Lol it's because he's NEVER in the mood and I always am. I get turned down 9 out of the 10 times I ask.
11/20/2011
Istanbull Istanbull
My wife uses these gems.

"I have a headache" she gets one no less than three times a week.
"I need to take a shower."
"I just took a shower."
"I'm working tomorrow."
"I need to get ready for bed."
"I just changed the sheets."
"I need to clean the house."

And my all time favorite.

"Because I said NO."
11/20/2011
sweetcaroline sweetcaroline
I have yet to not be in the mood :p
12/06/2011
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