Trying to learn to squirt. Any advice?

TzarChasm TzarChasm
My wife and I have experienced her squirting on a few rare occasions—always when I'm fingering her deeply and vigorously. Unfortunately, though it absolutely blows my mind to see it happen, we haven't had any luck in . . . it feels like a year.

We've both read books and articles up the wazoo and we own all kinds of toys that are supposed to be great for making it happen, like the Lelo Ella and the Njoy Pure Wand. Still, even though she wants it to happen we always cum up dry.

I'd love any and all advice that people can share here from personal experience. Tell me how you learned to make it happen for you or your partner; describe techniques and toys you rely on down to the detail. I know that every woman's body is different but I'd love some great ideas to springboard off of.

If your advice contributes to our success, I'll raise the first shot glass of my wife's ambrosia to you.
03/11/2014
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BlackOrchid BlackOrchid
Honestly, from what you're saying your wife may be able to just get off better/squirt from your fingers. I'm the same way! While G-spot toys are GREAT (I loooooove my Pure Wand) sometimes they just can't exert as much pressure, and speed as fingers can.
03/13/2014
edeneve edeneve
try not to push for a squirting O. she needs to relax & enjoy what she is experiencing. remember, the destination isn't as important as the journey. btw, have the 2 of you made some serious efforts w/ your memory to see what all you did that lead up to those O's?
03/13/2014
epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
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Originally posted by TzarChasm
My wife and I have experienced her squirting on a few rare occasions—always when I'm fingering her deeply and vigorously. Unfortunately, though it absolutely blows my mind to see it happen, we haven't had any luck in . . . it feels like a ...
For me it's about timing do what ever you need to do to get her there but take your time in getting there. A good build up is where it's at. (for me)
03/13/2014
Glinteye Glinteye
I think it's pretty personal, but generally finding the right spot and stimulation, and being well warmed up and relaxed is key!
03/29/2014
virgomama616 virgomama616
Im still learning too, I feel like its a trick to master. I have found that it happens after there has been a big build up leading up to the actual act. Like talking and teasing through out the day before we actually get to do anything about it.
06/24/2014
virgomama616 virgomama616
Also, I have recently found that if I kind of... push, for a lack of a better term, it makes a difference!
06/24/2014
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