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I know there are some parts of my sexuality that I want to keep all to myself. I'm curious if other people feel the same way.
We have a clear cut agreement. Anything either one of us wants to try, so long as it is just between the two of us, is a green light "go". In fact, we agreed ahead of time that it is a "twice go", since you may not like something the first time or do it well, so you cannot rule it out without trying it at least twice. We have yet to find any fantasy the other has, something we didn't want to try again. We both enjoy making the other as happy as possible, and that applies in and out of the bedroom.