How do I ask him to try bondage without freaking him out?

CaliGirl CaliGirl
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does anyone have any ideas on how to ask my man to try bondage with me without freaking him out.
05/31/2012
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Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
I would try to warm the waters a bit. My husband dropped a few hits to like my hand pined down, then he showed me a few pics here and there. and even once showed me a video. by the end I was ready to go.
05/31/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
Slowly ease into it with less intimidating things first. Like bondage tape or a padded/soft material hand cuffs.
06/01/2012
Nice to Eat you Nice to Eat you
get some free handcuffs and let him use it on you
06/01/2012
AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
Mention it casually and gauge reaction. Hell, you could even mention something about "50 Shades of Grey" and see his reaction. I finally found out my wife was wanting what I'd been wanting the whole time by subtle hints she mentioned while reading a book similar.
06/01/2012
Nirelan Nirelan
I had mine read 50 shades and we just ordered a BUNCH of bondage toys
06/01/2012
Nirelan Nirelan
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Originally posted by AHubbyof2SexualMinds
Mention it casually and gauge reaction. Hell, you could even mention something about "50 Shades of Grey" and see his reaction. I finally found out my wife was wanting what I'd been wanting the whole time by subtle hints she mentioned ... More
I did the 50 shades thing and he was ALL bout it apparently made his day!!
06/01/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Suggest something light like handcuffs or blindfold, and if he's game, do more.
06/02/2012
CaliGirl CaliGirl
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Originally posted by CaliGirl
does anyone have any ideas on how to ask my man to try bondage with me without freaking him out.
I just mentioned it and mine was all game, very excited. He works away from home so I sent him some cuffs and told him to bring them home with him
06/20/2012
KRD KRD
I forced it on him. We got into an argument and he tried going to bed instead of talking to me. So I brought out my bondage straps (which he didn't know I had at the time) and quickly tied him up. Talking definitely turned into something else
06/24/2012
krystalmarie krystalmarie
these post are helpful thanks
06/28/2012
nankabd nankabd
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Originally posted by CaliGirl
does anyone have any ideas on how to ask my man to try bondage with me without freaking him out.
Dude, just ask him. Who needs to beat around the bush when you can just get what you want?
07/09/2012
Cora Jane Cora Jane
I agree with the previous posters, start with trying something small like a blindfold and soft handcuffs and if he's okay with it then slowly add more. That's how I did it with my partner. I think if I would've started with "hey, why don't we try some bondage?" from the start he might not have been very open minded about the idea.
07/09/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
I think you need to talk about it outside the bedroom first. Then discuss something you want to do, then look at it (pics and stuff), then try it, then evaluate. The last part is really important. Talk about what happened and about what you liked and did not like. Then if you both enjoyed it and want more just repeat the steps. I would not just try it out without talking to him. I would also not suggest 50 shades of grey. Some people like it, I do not. I do not think it is very kink positive and makes it seem wrong, when being kinky is not a problem.
07/09/2012
digit88 digit88
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Originally posted by CaliGirl
does anyone have any ideas on how to ask my man to try bondage with me without freaking him out.
slowly get into it by just having your hands restrained
07/09/2012
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