Yeah, most of the above for me, too.
Mostly slow and FIRM (not soft), with hand stimulation as much as possible on the shaft, balls, nipples and ass (obviously requires some roaming hands). Mix it up with some fast sucking/stroking, be sure to include as much DEEP as possible, feel free to lick/suck balls, ass and nipples as desired. Always come back to slow and firm, especially for the finish. Take your time - the longer the better.
Just go ahead and sit on my face while you're at it. That gets me off like nothing else does.
And please, please, please let me stay in your mouth when I cum and hold me there without moving more than just a little bit until I completely finish cumming (at least 30 sec to a minute). Swallowing is wonderful if you like to do that. Or just give me a big, wet kiss and I'll do the swallowing.