Deal breakers

charletnarouh charletnarouh
What is, sexually speaking, an absolute deal breaker for you? Anything that you absolutely NEED in bed that you'd pass someone up if they won't do or be ok with it? Have you encountered it or is it purely speculation. What thing or things are vital for you and have you ever broken up/ended things/passed on someone who wouldn't at least acquiesce?

A partner who absolutely will not let me reciprocate is a deal breaker for me if they can't be convinced to at least give me a chance.
03/13/2012
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Lizzy Lizzy
No oral is def a deal breaker. Giving or receiving
03/13/2012
Rossie Rossie
I agree with Lizzy.
03/13/2012
MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by charletnarouh
What is, sexually speaking, an absolute deal breaker for you? Anything that you absolutely NEED in bed that you'd pass someone up if they won't do or be ok with it? Have you encountered it or is it purely speculation. What thing or things are ... More
Intimacy. If there isn't any......Im done. lol. I have broken up with guys in the past before because they were all about "fuckin'" and had no grace about it at all. There has to be something there in order to even get off, let alone want to do it again
03/18/2012
Positwist Positwist
Communication. I know it sounds trite, but I need REALLY solid communication in bed or the whole thing just feels weird for me. They need to be comfortable talking about their bodies, what they like and want, and they need to respect what I tell them about my body, what I like and want.

I've run into plenty of people who can't handle this. I try to talk, and they ignore me and try to get on with it like they already know what I want and like. Total deal breaker.
03/19/2012
CindyH CindyH
giving or recieving
03/19/2012
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