Faking orgasms - do you do it?

bowzer311 bowzer311
How many people fake an orgasm? If you do, how often? Also Why do you fake it?
02/01/2013
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Tibby Tibby
Quote:
Originally posted by bowzer311
How many people fake an orgasm? If you do, how often? Also Why do you fake it?
I use to fake it but really you are cheating urself. they think you like whatever it is there doing and you dont. they keep doing in it which results in more faking it. only time i do it now is if i get thrown off my game and usually whatever we are doing does it for me.
02/01/2013
dm dm
Quote:
Originally posted by bowzer311
How many people fake an orgasm? If you do, how often? Also Why do you fake it?
nope and never.
02/01/2013
married with children married with children
my wife never has, she lets me know if she came or not, and if she wants to keep trying if she has not. She has a hard time relaxing some nights and having a good time.
02/01/2013
SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
Absolutely not. We consider it lying. If I don't have one, then I don't have one, but he makes every effort to make sure I can.
02/01/2013
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by bowzer311
How many people fake an orgasm? If you do, how often? Also Why do you fake it?
I have every once in a while cause it might be taking too long or I'm just not in the mood.
02/01/2013
sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
I used to because I was embarrassed that I couldn't orgasm around other people, but now I just let them know that they most likely won't get me to orgasm and assure them that I still have fun anyways.
02/01/2013
Rossie Rossie
No, I never fake orgasms.
02/01/2013
Septimus Septimus
I've never done it and I don't ever plan on doing it. If you fake it, your partner is going to assume that whatever they were doing was working and they'll keep doing it, even though it might not be what you like.
If you're not orgasming (and you know you can), communication is the best way to get what you need. There's no need to lie to stroke someone's ego, it's not going to help anyone in the long run.
02/01/2013
ArchVixen ArchVixen
Nope, I never fake it. If I didn't get there my husband is definitely going to know about it. I'm not letting him off the hook that easy.
02/02/2013
Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
Nope, never. That's so much worse than just admitting to my partner that I didn't orgasm.
02/02/2013
butts butts
Absolutely not, I never would, I can't see my partner ever doing that either.
02/02/2013
pinkrabbit pinkrabbit
No why lie and make them think they are doing it right and going away mad. And if he asks how was it I just say well if it sucked would you really want to know, if so ask again and I will tell you.SO DONT CHEAT YOUR SELF. iF ITS GOOD DO BY ALL MEANS MAKE THAT KNOWN.
02/10/2013
palindromic palindromic
No faking here. My boo is pretty darn good at bringing me to orgasm, but if it's just not going to happen, we are both totally comfortable with that reality!
02/10/2013
Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by bowzer311
How many people fake an orgasm? If you do, how often? Also Why do you fake it?
Sometimes I fake enjoyment, but not orgams per say.
02/10/2013
Kelslynn22 Kelslynn22
NOpe there is no need to my man is plenty for me to handle. Even if I dont get off its ok.
02/16/2013
JennSenn JennSenn
Nope. I don't plan on ever doing it either. I believe in open communication in a relationship.
02/16/2013
earthmama earthmama
I don't fake it but there have been times in the past when a partner thought that I'd come but I hadn't, and I just let them think that. So that's kind of lying by omission.
02/20/2013
VeganChick (is Gone) VeganChick (is Gone)
Absolutely not. Honesty is very important to us, especially when it comes to things of such intimate nature. I could never do that to him, nor him to me.
02/21/2013
twelve13 twelve13
I have before. ONLY at the beginning or end of the relationships. At the beginning, because I wasn't comfortable enough to make people work out the kinks. Or I thought it would be too much effort if it wouldn't be a repeat experience. At the end, because we were fading apart emotionally (destined for break up) and I'm incredibly demisexual, so I wasn't really into it. I have never done it with my current partner.
02/24/2013
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