So I am, believe it or not, am pretty much a newbie to this. I mean, I know my harnesses back and front (and have tried a good number on), and I love a good dildo (cock?) as much as any other lady (man/tentacle lover/boi/grrl/etc). However, it's the putting of them together...I've never really gotten to be on either end of strap-on sex.
Ergo, I want to hear your advice and experiences. What harness do you like? And with which protrusion? And most importantly, WHY?
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Favorite Harness and Dildo/Cock combo?
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Favorite Harness and Dildo/Cock combo?
Favorite Harness and Dildo/Cock combo?
So many choices... but as a general note, cocks that have a good curve tend to stand up better in harnesses. Of course, the Hank looks best in a harness, as far as I'm concerned...
Then there are the o-ring issues, where the base sits, how the leg straps handle action... *sigh* I can't answer this post, too many strands. :) Reply
Then there are the o-ring issues, where the base sits, how the leg straps handle action... *sigh* I can't answer this post, too many strands. :) Reply
3 months ago
If I were a woman (which I'm not) in your situation, I would probably be looking for something that would please both me and my partner.
In that vein, I might suggest the Feeldoe in whatever size suits you best. I know it is supposed to be able to be used without a harness, but using it with the harness is so nice because it adds a lot of control. Also, both parties get to benefit from it.
Similar double-ended dildos will probably provide the same benefit, so that is where I would go with it.
As far as the harness is concerned, I have never been concerned about the look, so I just have a simple, inexpensive one, but you would probably be happier with one that has looks cool. Maybe the Jaguar which also comes in a Vegan variety for the animal lover in you. Reply
In that vein, I might suggest the Feeldoe in whatever size suits you best. I know it is supposed to be able to be used without a harness, but using it with the harness is so nice because it adds a lot of control. Also, both parties get to benefit from it.
Similar double-ended dildos will probably provide the same benefit, so that is where I would go with it.
As far as the harness is concerned, I have never been concerned about the look, so I just have a simple, inexpensive one, but you would probably be happier with one that has looks cool. Maybe the Jaguar which also comes in a Vegan variety for the animal lover in you. Reply
3 months ago
CW - I never had thought about the curve, good point. What do you mean too many strands?
Jimbo - You are so thoughtful :) I actually have the Syd (red patent leather and pyramid studs?! How hot is that?!?! Plus, safety pins in the back!), but have never gotten to use it. It's by Outlaw, so the wearer can slip a dildo in as well.
I've also bought a Nexus, but alas, have no one to try it with (on either direction), so I'm waiting to check that out.
You are a world-rocking reviewer :) Reply
Jimbo - You are so thoughtful :) I actually have the Syd (red patent leather and pyramid studs?! How hot is that?!?! Plus, safety pins in the back!), but have never gotten to use it. It's by Outlaw, so the wearer can slip a dildo in as well.
I've also bought a Nexus, but alas, have no one to try it with (on either direction), so I'm waiting to check that out.
You are a world-rocking reviewer :) Reply
3 months ago
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EE - You're too kind [blushing].
Originally posted by Essin' Em
CW - I never had thought about the curve, good point. What do you mean too many strands?
Jimbo - You are so thoughtful :) I actually have the Syd (red patent leather and pyramid studs?! How hot is that?!?! Plus, safety pins in the back!), but...
Jimbo - You are so thoughtful :) I actually have the Syd (red patent leather and pyramid studs?! How hot is that?!?! Plus, safety pins in the back!), but...
I do enjoy trying to find a toy to fit a particular need for those that express interest. Too bad I can't do it as a full time job that would be able to support my family.
Sounds like you already have all the tools you need (that harness sounds awesome). You just need to find the right partner to use them on or have them used on you, or both. Sorry I can't be much help there, but I'm sure you'll find a way, eventually. Reply
3 months ago
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