Have People Found out About Eden Fantasys?

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Have People Found out About Eden Fantasys?

kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Have people, who you did not want finding out, find out about you on Eden Fantasys? I have recently had an experience through my Pinterests where my soon to be mother-in-law found my Pinterest account and decided to dig through all my boards and pins to find my Eden Fantasys pages. There are only two, and are not tremendously embarrassing, but she not only showed her husband, my boyfriend, and her two young daughters, but questioned me about it. She asked if someone had hacked my account and if not why I was putting dirty things on my Pinterest. I did not know what to say, so I did not text her back, but I am never going to hear the end of it unless I lie and say that someone hacked my account... She is a very odd woman and is very strict in what she believes, so telling her that yes I own several of those products and so on would really damage our relationship and certainly would have her breathing down my boyfriend's neck. Crazy mother-in-laws... I guess I was wondering if anyone else has had something like this happen to them?
02/11/2013
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tequilafish tequilafish
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Originally posted by kkizzee05
Have people, who you did not want finding out, find out about you on Eden Fantasys? I have recently had an experience through my Pinterests where my soon to be mother-in-law found my Pinterest account and decided to dig through all my boards and pins ...
Wow... Luckily I haven't had that happen. If she were actually concerned about it because of moral or religious beliefs, you'd think she wouldn't want to expose her young daughters to it. Sounds like she's trying to show everyone that you're dirty or bad..

I'd say tell her that someone must have hacked you, and delete them. She doesn't sound like someone who can be reasoned with about something like this, and I don't see anything wrong with lying to your future MIL to keep her out of your personal/sex life. Even though there's nothing wrong with sex toys, I don't think it's worth it to try and convince her of that. Then make a new account for Eden, with a separate email address, etc, so it can't be linked back to any of your other accounts.

Good luck! I hope she drops it..
02/11/2013
kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Originally posted by tequilafish
Wow... Luckily I haven't had that happen. If she were actually concerned about it because of moral or religious beliefs, you'd think she wouldn't want to expose her young daughters to it. Sounds like she's trying to show everyone that ...
Me too, and thanks. I have blocked her on just about everything do hopefully this does not happen again. I obviously see nothing wrong with sex toys, but to her these sites and the toys are instruments of the devil lol
02/11/2013
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
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Originally posted by tequilafish
Wow... Luckily I haven't had that happen. If she were actually concerned about it because of moral or religious beliefs, you'd think she wouldn't want to expose her young daughters to it. Sounds like she's trying to show everyone that ...
Yes. This. All of this. That woman doesn't sound reasonable, so by all means, don't attempt to reason with her.
02/11/2013
edeneve edeneve
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Originally posted by kkizzee05
Have people, who you did not want finding out, find out about you on Eden Fantasys? I have recently had an experience through my Pinterests where my soon to be mother-in-law found my Pinterest account and decided to dig through all my boards and pins ...
I'd begin by challenging those "dirty" things statement.
02/11/2013
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Nope have not had this happen to me but mostly everyone knows I am on here anyways.
02/11/2013
The Vixen The Vixen
I'm sorry you're dealing with that. Whether she thinks you were hacked or posted the stuff yourself, she should learn not to spread it around.
Because she's not certain if you were hacked, she knows she might potentially be showing your future father-in-law (and others) secrets about your sexuality, which isn't appropriate and kinda rude in my opinion. I'd be mad.

I'd just tell her that you were hacked and it was posted by someone else. AND if she sees something like that in the future to bring it to your attention FIRST. It's probably better in the long run to keep her out of your sex life.
ugh.. Mother-in-laws.. I feel ya.

I've almost had my cover blown with family;

I have a facebook page that I made for Eden so I can like and share things and participate in contests without my very conservative family seeing. And I thought I associated that login here with Eden so stuff would post to that account only.

So apparently when you like something on Eden, Eden takes the liberty of posting that to the timeline of ANY account that is currently logged in on your computer, without any sort of permission asked.

Luckily my cousin and a friend started commenting on my activity pretty much immediately, and they thought I was being hacked so I was able to remove it right away before everyone saw.

I'm really careful now to make sure which profile I'm signed into, and as backup I went and changed permission of my personal FB so that Eden cannot post publicly to my timeline.
I wish there was some sort of permission asked in the first place though.
02/11/2013
kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Originally posted by The Vixen
I'm sorry you're dealing with that. Whether she thinks you were hacked or posted the stuff yourself, she should learn not to spread it around.
Because she's not certain if you were hacked, she knows she might potentially be showing ...
Yes, I believe they should as well. I just hate that I have to hide it and it really made me mad that she showed everyone, including her 17 and 16 year old daughters who have now continued to text me to make sure that I was indeed hacked, and it has turned into a really embarrassing mess. Of course, my side of the family, pardon my french, said that it's none of her god damn business, and I think that she should not be prying into my sexual life either.
02/11/2013
js250 js250
Your situation is very embarrassing and uncalled for on her part. I have been in your shoes but with a different situation. I ended up telling my mother in law to respect my privacy since I do allow my daughter, a couple friends who are less fortunate than I am and her sister AND her friend to use my computer occasionally and I have no control over their posting, learning how to use the sites via my account and basic spamming of third parties and others trying to befriend me on social sites. I was sorry she was offended, but if it took that minimal of an offense to create such an uproar--you would rather not deal with the issues and respect each other's privacy.

It did work for me--of course I did do a kind of sneaky and had a couple friends 'add' two minor things to her public suggestions. Then she felt very shitty, little and mean for even making a big deal of it--see, it happened to HER. Good luck, hun--prob better to do the easy deal and blame hacking or spammers.
02/11/2013
kkizzee05 kkizzee05
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Originally posted by js250
Your situation is very embarrassing and uncalled for on her part. I have been in your shoes but with a different situation. I ended up telling my mother in law to respect my privacy since I do allow my daughter, a couple friends who are less ...
Thanks for the advice
02/11/2013
epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
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Originally posted by kkizzee05
Have people, who you did not want finding out, find out about you on Eden Fantasys? I have recently had an experience through my Pinterests where my soon to be mother-in-law found my Pinterest account and decided to dig through all my boards and pins ...
Wow sucky situation. For me I just would have to say I am who I am. I can't lie like that, even though it's more of a white lie. you do what you have to do to keep your relationship with your Mom in law, especially if it will rock your relationship with your boyfriend.
Me and my hubbies mother used to butt heads, one day she started yelling at me and my(hubby) boyfriend at the time told her that she's my girlfriend and she's not going anywhere so you better get along. it took some time but we are really close now.
02/12/2013
Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by kkizzee05
Have people, who you did not want finding out, find out about you on Eden Fantasys? I have recently had an experience through my Pinterests where my soon to be mother-in-law found my Pinterest account and decided to dig through all my boards and pins ...
no I haven't had that happen, but I would be PISSED!!!! I think you should consider she will always be sticking her nose in your business, so I would confront her now, rather than later.
02/12/2013
shnsmth6 shnsmth6
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Originally posted by kkizzee05
Have people, who you did not want finding out, find out about you on Eden Fantasys? I have recently had an experience through my Pinterests where my soon to be mother-in-law found my Pinterest account and decided to dig through all my boards and pins ...
that sucks
02/12/2013
roskat roskat
How annoying! I won't let anybody touch my laptop. Maybe you could make a separate account just for Eden activities...
02/12/2013
edeneve edeneve
I guess I'm fortunate that only those I choose to know about my EF involvement are the only ones who do about 8 - 10.
02/12/2013
kkizzee05 kkizzee05
I blocked her from just about everything and changed my accounts so hopefully she can not stick her nose back into my business. What made me the maddest was that she showed several people and never confronted me about it, her sixteen year old daughter did...
02/12/2013
Petite Cannibal Petite Cannibal
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Originally posted by kkizzee05
Have people, who you did not want finding out, find out about you on Eden Fantasys? I have recently had an experience through my Pinterests where my soon to be mother-in-law found my Pinterest account and decided to dig through all my boards and pins ...
I've had this happen. ;^; My mom needed to use my computer for Ebay, and as soon as she typed an E into the bar, EdenFantasys showed up. xD I never hear the end of it. --__--" Oh well. I love my toys and such too much to be bothered, honestly.
02/15/2013
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I don't have this issue everyone pretty much knows I am on here and what it is about, I honestly could care less who knows. I did make a separate Facebook account for Eden so I wasn't "spamming" everyone with what I was doing. I would tell the MIL your life you are of age you will do what you want. I don't see why she showed her UNDERAGE daughters and her husband.

I introduced my ex's mom to Eden an even gave her some toys I got but didn't use. My parents know what I do and could careless that I do it and that the packages and contents are in their home.


You can lie or speak up about you are who you are and her approval really isn't needed.

Best of Luck
02/15/2013
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