How Did You Introduce Your Partner to a Sex Toy?

Em & Lo Em & Lo
This week onEMandLO.com, our Wise Guys gave their take on how a woman could introduce her fella to her favorite sex toy, without him feeling intimidated or hurt. How did you share a toy with a partner? And what was the result? Any suggestions for not bruising delicate egos?

- Em & Lo
01/26/2012
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Pixel Pixel
My experience with introducing my boyfriend to sex toys was definitely unique. When we first started dating, my (then) Owner had a 'no sex with new partners 'til they've been tested' rule. So, I brought up toys as an alternative to penetrative sex. He thought that was one of the hottest thing ever, and now loves trying out all my new toys on me. lol He doesn't have any illusions that the toy is replacing him, so I don't have any advice on that front, sorry.
01/27/2012
Elnoa Elnoa
I just handed it to my husband (boyfriend at the time) and said "Hey! Look what I got in the mail today!"
01/27/2012
DTP DTP
When I bought one for my wife..."Can't believe you do not have one, you are going to love this." She does and now several toys are mixed in to our play time.
01/27/2012
married with children married with children
I just pulled the toy out of my bag and surprised her. she laughed at first, but then got off using it.
01/28/2012
RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by Elnoa
I just handed it to my husband (boyfriend at the time) and said "Hey! Look what I got in the mail today!"
LOL, That's what I say to my GF when I've gotten a new toy for us!
01/28/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Em & Lo
This week onEMandLO.com, our Wise Guys gave their take on how a woman could introduce her fella to her favorite sex toy, without him feeling intimidated or hurt. How did you share a toy with a partner? And what was the result? Any suggestions for not ... More
I still haven't convinced him to a toy for him, but I'm thinking blind fold and tenga egg!
01/28/2012
AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
We had discussed them for a time, and then we had a really hot night and I mentioned it again, and she said she'd like one. I went out at 11:00 in the night to pick it up and we haven't looked back since.
01/28/2012
Eliza Eliza
I haven't used anything with my boyfriend yet. Honestly, I was shy bringing lube into the question, because he's the first man after a long string of ladies that I've been with, and I never really needed lube before. I'm hoping to introduce him to my Bottle Rocket Apollo, because it's small and not intimidating at all, but I want to wait till we have a long time to spend in bed, not just a standard romp between us being away at school.
01/28/2012
Rossie Rossie
Took it out from the box and showed it to him, he was a little hesitant but used it on me anyways.
01/29/2012
jbknows jbknows
He asked how I handled myself when they weren't around, and I mentioned a toy. They asked to see it, and I pulled out a WeVibe.
01/29/2012
Velocity Velocity
It was him actually.
He asked me if I ever was curious about toys, had any, or wanted to try some.
07/13/2012
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