I've had sex with one person, but I won't lie, it's a lot of sex with that one person. I like sex, if I had my way, I'd be having more sex, but fewer partners doesn't equal less sex.
How many sexual partners have you had?
12/28/2011
Altogether, I've had 5 sexual partners (one of which is my current partner). Considering how I used to be, I'm proud that my number is still so low (I wanted to be loved, and thought that giving people what they wanted would make it happen). At the same time, I wish I'd known well enough to wait for someone that actually treated me right and was willing to wait until I was ready.
12/28/2011
Two.
12/29/2011
I'm actually pretty surprised by the answers on here. Seems like I know more people in real life with higher number then lower.
12/29/2011
Wow...I had to take a trip back in time for this one. Best guess is around 20.
12/29/2011
I tried hard to keep my numbers under 10, now I wish I hadn't. I find I have regrets of not being with the women that I could have.
03/17/2012
Two, but the second one wasn't until last week.
03/17/2012
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25 guys full on sex, 4 girls full on sex, 5 guys oral only in addition. Also a small cum on my boobs, tummy or butt only - no sucking no facial bukkake party with a few more plus some of the previous.
Originally posted by
Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I'm interested to see how the EF community compares to the rest of society. Are we more sexually open? Are we 'ethical sluts'? Are we just the same as everyone else?
03/17/2012
Just the one that I am currently dating.
03/18/2012
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Quite a few partners, but like Oohlook... I'm a toy slut!!!
Originally posted by
oohlookasquirrel
Just a couple partners, but if you ask me how many dildos I have, I guess I'm a bit of a dildo slut.
03/18/2012
Hm, interesting results.
03/18/2012
Less history more mystery.
03/20/2012
I went a bit crazy when i went away to college
03/20/2012
I really feel like i need to be in an open relationship, i want to know what its like to sleep with different people before i settle down for life. but one to date
03/20/2012
I consider those times to be my slutty times.
03/20/2012
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1 and proud of it. was a virgin til april 2007 when i met the man i married in 2008 who is the father of my kids. he was married before, but me - 1 person ever
Originally posted by
Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I'm interested to see how the EF community compares to the rest of society. Are we more sexually open? Are we 'ethical sluts'? Are we just the same as everyone else?
03/20/2012
I'm with the majority of 1-5 and I am going to keep it that way. I've had a LOT of sex with FEW partners.
03/20/2012
You know, I think by looking at the results, that the sex toys may actually help relationships so there are fewer partners. I mean lets face it, when people call it quits there is almost sex involved in some way shape or form. From not enough, too much, to going somewhere else or it just being bad. Toys and other products found on sites like this help keep it from getting too common. You can always try something new!
03/20/2012
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I agree completely. My husband is the only one I have been with and we have sex every chance we get in everyway we can.
Originally posted by
AndroAngel
I've had sex with one person, but I won't lie, it's a lot of sex with that one person. I like sex, if I had my way, I'd be having more sex, but fewer partners doesn't equal less sex.
03/20/2012
Lost my virginity to hubby and he to me but have had a bunch more partners since then because we like to "share" and have done the swinging thing before.
03/20/2012
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I don't know, I think we are more "open" sexually. I don't think we are ethical sluts because we are satisfying a basic human need, and celebrating it. I am happy that I can be open with my sexuality, and get what I want. But generally speaking I do think people on this site are more"open" when it comes to all things sexual, but I think that's a really good thing.
Originally posted by
Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I'm interested to see how the EF community compares to the rest of society. Are we more sexually open? Are we 'ethical sluts'? Are we just the same as everyone else?
04/26/2012
6 male partners and 2 female partners.
04/26/2012
I've only had two sexual partners, but I do consider myself an "ethical slut"... both my sexual partners are at the same time, as I'm in a poly relationship. XD
04/26/2012
More than the average for women, but not by many... With several repeat offenders.
04/26/2012
I have a BDSM partner who is my master-mistress-Mx (genderfluid), I'm still "soft" about it, but no penetration so still a virgin I guess.
Then I've been coerced into some things by a stranger once or other strangers tried to, so now I set the "comfortable with" bar higher. If they can accept to wait until I'm comfortable and confident in that they'll respect my boundaries... well if that's the case, if I know they can wait and respect my boundaries, I'll feel more comfortable already. I just feel like I would be abused if I do stuffs too early with people I trust or that they would think "I've played a better trick to him than most did! I even let him think I considered him as a person and cared for him too, while other people just made him feel like he was impolite to refuse and faked not knowing his language." :/
But yeah, trying to work on my trust issues and all.
Then I've been coerced into some things by a stranger once or other strangers tried to, so now I set the "comfortable with" bar higher. If they can accept to wait until I'm comfortable and confident in that they'll respect my boundaries... well if that's the case, if I know they can wait and respect my boundaries, I'll feel more comfortable already. I just feel like I would be abused if I do stuffs too early with people I trust or that they would think "I've played a better trick to him than most did! I even let him think I considered him as a person and cared for him too, while other people just made him feel like he was impolite to refuse and faked not knowing his language." :/
But yeah, trying to work on my trust issues and all.
04/26/2012
Just 5 for meeeeee
04/26/2012
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Originally posted by
Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I'm interested to see how the EF community compares to the rest of society. Are we more sexually open? Are we 'ethical sluts'? Are we just the same as everyone else?
my husband
05/02/2012
Admittedly not that many. I'm not sure if the community is more "slutty," but we're more likely to be open and upfront about our sexuality.
05/03/2012
im virgin but i fuck my pocket pussys all the time
05/03/2012
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I've had one partner, but you pose a most interesting question. I think the Eden community has a little bit of everyone. I bet there are plenty of people on Eden who are virgins and also people who have had many sexual partners. There's nothing wrong with either of these, everyone can enjoy sex toys!
Originally posted by
Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I'm interested to see how the EF community compares to the rest of society. Are we more sexually open? Are we 'ethical sluts'? Are we just the same as everyone else?
05/03/2012