Men's pleasure wand XL by Doc Johnson

This is perhaps the perfect toy for the man wanting to explore prostate play. The gradually larger circles at the tip are good for slow penetration. It has some girth, but not enough to be excessive, even for newbies. Regardless though, newbies will want to take their first few experiences with this toy slowly. And for those using toys with their partner, the ring at the end of the toy is very strong, well built, and perfect for partner play. The shape is nearly perfect for a prostate massager, and the vibrations on the taint and testicles add a little extra something to the experience. These vibrations are somewhat weak, but still noticeable. Perhaps in a future version they'll add another bullet in this area.

Those more experienced with prostate play may find this toy inadequate. The vibration is average, and it has a bad tendency to slip out. If you sit on the toy however, you'll be rewarded by stopping its tendency to slip out, and greatly increasing the pressure it places on the prostate. The girth is probably not sufficient either for experienced prostate players. For experienced people, I highly recommend instead the Deluxe Wonder Plug.

I recommend when you use this toy, that you start with low vibration, and ramp up as you approach orgasm. After orgasm, don't simply turn it off and pull it out. Slowly ramp down the vibrations again. It eliminates the awkward feeling you sometimes feel after anal play, and leaves you with an all-over good feeling.

Regardless of whether you're a newbie or experienced person when it comes to playing with your prostate, the fact that this toy is waterproof is a big big plus, especially for cleaning. This is perhaps the easiest toy to clean that I have -- even easier to clean than silicon toys I own.

I highly recommend using this toy while sitting down. It stops the toy's tendency to slip out, and puts pressure in a much more firm way on the prostate. Also, start with low vibration and ramp up as you approach orgasm. After you orgasm, slowly ramp down again. It will lessen the awkwardness a newbie feels when playing with their prostate, and leaves you with an all over good feeling.