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Wild About S&M Kit = Tame S&M

For couples new to BDSM, this kit is a great starting place. The pattern is sexy and non-threatening and it includes great pieces. Although our first kit arrived with broken cuffs, I would still recommend this to anyone who's interested in spicing up their love life.
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Pros:
Cute/Sexy pattern; Great for people new to S&M;
Cuffs have an easy to use safety latch
Cons:
The parts are easy to break; the flogger has a strong smell; the mask does not block all light
Rating by reviewer:
4
extremely useful review

Use

If you're new to S&M play or not quite sure what S&M play is, this kit is a good place to start. It's a light-use bondage kit for beginners. The mask, cuffs, and flogger won't won't stand up to heavy tugging or pulling but certainly do their job.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Bdsm
    • Light restraint
    • Sensory play
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Bedroom / on a bed
    • Play party
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly

Design / Craftsmanship / Material / Size / Fit

While the leopard print is very cute, this is an inexpensive kit and parts of it are made cheaply.
The picture below shows some of the product measurements:




The Cuffs:
These cuffs are metal with a faux fur leopard print cover over part of the cuff. These are just like the cuffs we got in a "jailbreak" Halloween costume, which is good since the pair that came with the kit were broken. The safety latch was completely broken off on both sides of the cuffs, which made them nearly impossible to open and potentially unsafe because the edges were sharp. In the picture below, I had already removed the fur lining from the broken cuffs and put them on my other pair. There is a small circle around the safety latch on my good pair and where it should be on the other pair.
Cuffs

Pros: The leopard print is cute, they are pretty non-threatening compared to other cuff sets on the market, if the locking mechanism is working they are easy to remove in an emergency.
Cons: These cuffs are pretty easy to bend and break, if you try. Also the fir lining isn't padded and doesn't completely wrap around the wrist, so you can still feel the metal against you. It wasn't horrible, but if you tugged hard enough, you could get a bruise.

The Flogger:
The Flogger is made of vinyl wrapped around a hollow tube. The handle is about 6" long and the tails are about 12" long. There is also a vinyl wrist strap, which is not stretchy but pretty generously sized. The pro and con here is that even with a good swing, this flogger will not provide much of a sting. Even after several good swings, we had no red marks. Instead, it provides just enough to let you know you've been hit with something. It's lightweight and easy to control, and although I think the handle base may be made of plastic, it's really sturdy. The only downside for us was that it had a strong pleather-y smell when we first opened it.

The Mask:
The mask is leopard print fur on one side and black polyester on the other. The elastic is is very stretchy, but returned to close to its original size after we played with it a bit. It wasn't as comfortable as the plush eye mask I already own, but it wasn't uncomfortable. For us, the only negative was that we could always see out of the bottom of the mask. In the right position, we could just see light so it wasn't horrible. However, if you're looking for something that completely takes away sight, this is not it. Otherwise, it's a great first mask.
    • Mixed material
    • Stylish
    • Will fit most people

Performance

The fact that the original cuffs were broken on arrival was a bit upsetting. The DH and I very carefully used a screwdriver to pry open the cuffs so we could use the fur liner. Otherwise, the kit it cute and functional. The cuffs are easy to put on and since we experimented with the flogger in advance, we knew it wouldn't be too painful. So far, no other pieces have broken, frayed, or chipped. The cuffs we are using, which are identical to the ones that came with the set, can pop open or slide tighter while in use, so we always put them on a little looser than needed. Since the pieces are pretty small, we can easily hide them in a drawer and pack them for trips.
    • Easy to put on / use

Care and Maintenance

Simply wipe off the products as needed. The blindfold and fur liner on the cuffs can be thrown into the washing machine, but I've only lined dried them. You can keep the original box to store these in, but we just keep them together in a drawer.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store

Packaging

The products came in a sealed plastic bag in the Sex and Mischief box. There were no instructions, but the items are pretty self-explanatory.
Follow-up commentary
Although we don't use this often, I am surprised at how well the mask has held up after washing. I would still recommend this set for the mask and the whip - but please buy yourself better cuffs!
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Comments
  • Curiouscat
    Curiouscat  
    Nice review, thanks for the info!
  • SJ88
    SJ88  
    Thanks
  • Zombirella
    Zombirella  
    Such a cute set. Thanks for the review.
  • jeangel246
    jeangel246  
    Thanks for the review
  • badk1tty
    badk1tty  
    Thank you for the information. Too bad it's low quality.
  • laceypanties
    laceypanties  
    Thanks!
  • arewehavingfun?
    arewehavingfun?  
    I love that this is leopard and not the usual solid black (or red). It really ups the sexy quotient for us.
  • BigR68
    BigR68  
    TY!
  • RedKyuubi
    RedKyuubi  
    Thanks
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