Harness and dildo sets for enjoying strap-on sex right out of the package

This is the kit that made us realize that strap-on play & pegging is possible even if you've had bad experiences with other products. We wouldn't have paid the prices that some other sites are charging but feel that the EF price makes this kit a great choice for anyone looking to start their journey in this side of sex. There's actually very little keeping this from being a five star product for us, although the 'cons' were enough to stop us from giving top marks to an otherwise perfect kit. Read more

When it says beginner, completely believe it. This is a very basic and unintimidating kit. For someone fairly new to harness play as I am, this kit would have been great when I was first experimenting with it but with any experience at all the kit is simply unimpressive. Read more

If you want a more fulFILLING experience, this kit isn't up for the challenge. It's small size leaves you both yearning for more. It's harness is the only redeeming factor. Read more

Although the harness fits well on any size, due to the style, the dildo that comes with it is much to small. The set does come with extra size rings that simply snap on to change the size of the dildo that can be used with the harness. The harness can easily fit too snugly and cut, but it’s a quick flick of the wrist to undo or loosen. For the price I would have liked a better dildo, but not too bad, the harness is amazing. Read more

As it turns out, some women (at least one woman noted for spanking her husband) finds a dildo coming out of hubby's stomach more than she could stomach! Jo had a good laugh and said something like, "Not on my watch!" There may have been something else about her being the only one in our house who was going to wear a dildo. Read more

The Flame Harness Kit is very pleasing to the eye and to the pocket book. It's a decent beginner's harness and is comfortable. The O-ring seems to pose some issues with keeping the dildo in, however the dildo is the main prize. If it were sold separately it'd be one of the top selling dildos on the site, I'm positive of it. I definitely think with more practice and maybe even a smaller O-ring or a bigger dildo, this would be the perfect harness for beginner and advanced user alike. Read more

Honestly, I would spend a few extra dollars and get a strap on that has better padding so that you do not find yourself replacing this product soon. Read more

To all you guys out there who are just beginning to explore anal play this would make a great step up from a plug or smaller anal vibrator. Just bend over and take it like a man :) Read more

This harness allows the couple to spice up their sex with the fantasy of the double penetration or sodomy. it's very comfortable and completed because there is a silicone dildo in the package. But there is only one ring and the harness is fragile because is not in leather. Read more

Used as a beginner for anal, this dildo was less than fabulous, but I imagine it would fare better for vaginal sex. Read more

I was disappointed by the harness and threw it away after a few uses. The dildo is nice; I kept that. Read more

I would buy the Leather Ring Harness for the harness but not necessarily the dildo. The ease of getting into the harness without having to adjust straps and overall comfort are both big pluses. The non-adjustable O-ring is a disadvantage for using dongs with a smaller diameter than one and five eights inch. Read more

Disappointing waste of money, I would not recommend to anyone; would rather leave it a as memory of one that could not cut it. Read more

All in all, an attractive toy, but not the best for those wanting to try a strap-on for the first time. Read more

This toy was not very exciting to us. It gave us a wonderful new mouth gag which we love. The first few times were fun, but after a few uses, the dildo becomes hard to insert. Read more

If you are certain that you (and presumably your partner) are interested in getting a harness/strap on, then I suggest investing your money into something with a better design and quality materials. If however you are just curious, this is a simple way to try it out without putting too much money into it. For the price, it's good to try something new. Read more

The Jack Rabbit Harness from Cal Exotics is a decent set. The rabbit is a bit of a let down as it is covered in oily residue that has a strong chemical smell. The harness on the other hand is quite nice. It has a design unlike any other harness we own. If you are a beginner looking to test the water then this is a good value set. Read more

This is a flexible harness designed for initial exploration into gender or anal play. The harness is easily adjustable and fits well. It is not a harness that you’ll want for extensive use. Read more

If you're looking for a fantastic harness, I'm sad to say that this is not it. While it's fine for the basics, it lacks the comfort and quality of the greats and even the semi-greats. Its one asset: It's thin enough to fit comfortably under clothing. Overall, not a hit. Read more