do you find it exciting or comical when a man strokes himself in front of you.

misterazor misterazor
durring foreplay i wonder if women find it funny or sexy if a man starts touching himself. as a man, i find it maddeningly amazing when a woman touches herself...but that is apples and oranges.
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funny
6  (7%)
sexy
80  (93%)
Total votes: 86
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Gracie Gracie
I love it!
11/24/2012
roskat roskat
Hot as hell!
11/24/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
It's extremely sexy. Why would it be comical? I guess I don't find masturbation humorous--it's something most of us do, it's healthy and hot. I think we're taught to find it a funny concept because people are so uncomfortable with sexuality, and when we're uncomfortable with something, we turn it into a joke. It's silly to me. When a guy starts stroking himself in front of me, I get very, very turned on. I love the moment of ejaculation, too. Yum.
11/24/2012
lovesexandmarriage lovesexandmarriage
I LOVE watching my hubby stroke himself. LOVE it! I could watch him for hours!!
11/24/2012
Incendiaire Incendiaire
Very hot.
11/24/2012
Terri69 Terri69
I think it's hot!
11/25/2012
Martiniman Martiniman
My wife says she really likes it.
11/25/2012
heather-mooney heather-mooney
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
durring foreplay i wonder if women find it funny or sexy if a man starts touching himself. as a man, i find it maddeningly amazing when a woman touches herself...but that is apples and oranges.
why would it be funny?
11/25/2012
XxXxX XxXxX
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
durring foreplay i wonder if women find it funny or sexy if a man starts touching himself. as a man, i find it maddeningly amazing when a woman touches herself...but that is apples and oranges.
I dont see how it would be funny. I think it is hot and gets those natural juices flowing. I could watch for hours and hours.
11/25/2012
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I love watching him stroke his cock for me...I'm getting wet just thinking about it!
11/25/2012
Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
durring foreplay i wonder if women find it funny or sexy if a man starts touching himself. as a man, i find it maddeningly amazing when a woman touches herself...but that is apples and oranges.
I don't find it funny so much as it just does nothing to turn me on
11/25/2012
Cat E. Cat E.
I'm totally turned on by it. I can't understand why anyone would think it's funny.
11/25/2012
Apirka Apirka
I find it very sexy when a man starts touching himself in front of me, either in responce to me touching myself or from something else I'm doing. I've even told previous partners to jack off in front of me while I watched (I even provided porn and lube/toys if wanted/needed).
11/25/2012
misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by Supervixen
It's extremely sexy. Why would it be comical? I guess I don't find masturbation humorous--it's something most of us do, it's healthy and hot. I think we're taught to find it a funny concept because people are so uncomfortable with ... More
it's a male ego thing...we don't like to do things that make us seem weak or compromised. and we are never sure if a girl is going to laugh. i'm married, so i'm not worried about my wife laughing...but i just wanted to get a sense of a woman's reaction before...wipping it out. thanks for the info. you're awesome!
11/26/2012
misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by lovesexandmarriage
I LOVE watching my hubby stroke himself. LOVE it! I could watch him for hours!!
what, in particular, do you like about it? is there a technique, eye contact, no eye contact... i ask because, when we as men are doing it alone, we pretty much look like monkeys hunkered over. i doubt that's what you are invisioning. and thanks you for your repsonses...to multiple questions i have asked.
11/26/2012
misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by heather-mooney
why would it be funny?
because when we are by ourselves, it is quick, not very sexy...we tend to look like monkeys tugging on a rope.
11/26/2012
misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by XxXxX
I dont see how it would be funny. I think it is hot and gets those natural juices flowing. I could watch for hours and hours.
this is so very helpful. i'm getting lots of "sexy" votes. i'm becoming convinced and will have to now try it. thanks
11/26/2012
misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by SecretKinksters
I love watching him stroke his cock for me...I'm getting wet just thinking about it!
well, i'm glad i could put the thought in your head. you people are awesome. i love the honesty here. thanks.
11/26/2012
misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by Cat E.
I'm totally turned on by it. I can't understand why anyone would think it's funny.
well, guys worry about that kind of thing sometimes. and it's nice to see that so many women seem to enjoy it tremendously...and even those who don't do not find it funny. i find myself emboldened. thanks so much for your post.
11/26/2012
misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by Apirka
I find it very sexy when a man starts touching himself in front of me, either in responce to me touching myself or from something else I'm doing. I've even told previous partners to jack off in front of me while I watched (I even provided ... More
wow. i wish everyone was as open as you about sexuality. on this topic, i'm getting a lot of "sexy" votes. i will remember this...and my wife may be thanking you all before the week is over!
11/26/2012
jr2012 jr2012
I would totally be turned on by it.

Here is a caveat though...occasionally when it happens to me, I immediately wonder if I'm not doing a good enough job, and he needs his own hand to get off! I know it's silly, but both genders get self conscious, even in long term relationships! I think the takeaway of this is to find the right moment to do it.
11/26/2012
Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
Love it!
11/26/2012
misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by jr2012
I would totally be turned on by it.

Here is a caveat though...occasionally when it happens to me, I immediately wonder if I'm not doing a good enough job, and he needs his own hand to get off! I know it's silly, but both genders get ... More
great point...and thanks for the honesty. yes, we all have our insecurities. this question is an admission of my own. so, thanks for the post...very cool.
11/26/2012
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
sexyyyyy
11/26/2012
spineyogurt spineyogurt
its sexy
11/26/2012
JessieDawg JessieDawg
sexy!
11/26/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
it's a male ego thing...we don't like to do things that make us seem weak or compromised. and we are never sure if a girl is going to laugh. i'm married, so i'm not worried about my wife laughing...but i just wanted to get a sense ... More
I can understand the unease that some men might find with doing it. Hell, women worry about stuff all the time in the bedroom like this. It usually revolves around the way we look, taste, or smell, though. Can he see the cellulite on my thighs? Do I look fat in this lingerie? Do I smell clean down there? Do I taste okay? Sex puts us all in a vulnerable place and requires a certain level of intimacy, even casual sex, so it's great when we find ourselves with a partner who we feel comfortable with so we can let that guard down.

I think our culture is so used to turning masturbation into a joke, that some people just can't handle it when they see someone else doing it. I think it's immature of someone to laugh at another person who has allowed themselves to be in a vulnerable position like that, so if any woman did laugh at a guy for touching himself while he's with her, I'd think she has a lot of growing up to do before she's ready for sex. I mean, sure, when you're by yourself you may not look sexually stunning and you're just jerking away. I mean, when I'm by myself, I don't look like a porn star; I'm not thinking about it! I'm just doing what feels good in the moment. But if he's watching, I like to put on a show for him. I'll arch my back, I'll moan, I'll stroke my thighs, I'll taste myself from my fingers...I love the reaction it gets! And when I've been with a guy who will do it in front of me, he'll make a bit of a show of it, too. That's part of the fun! I like touching him lightly all over, and rubbing myself against him while he does it...and eye contact is AWESOME. I find that to be a good counterbalance for nerves when I do it for him, too. Like, I know you're watching me, and I'm acknowledging it, and I don't care...keep watching. Masturbate with confidence!

One of my fantasies that I haven't had a chance to act out yet is masturbating in front him while he masturbates, and just watching each other...maybe make a bit of a game out of it; whoever cums first wins! The winner then gets the pleasure of finishing the other one off. Everybody wins, you see.
11/27/2012
lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by misterazor
durring foreplay i wonder if women find it funny or sexy if a man starts touching himself. as a man, i find it maddeningly amazing when a woman touches herself...but that is apples and oranges.
ohh yes turns me on don't know why but hot hot
11/28/2012
misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by Supervixen
I can understand the unease that some men might find with doing it. Hell, women worry about stuff all the time in the bedroom like this. It usually revolves around the way we look, taste, or smell, though. Can he see the cellulite on my thighs? Do I ... More
this turned me on, i don't mind saying. and i hope that you try that scenario sometime soon. let me know how it works out. thanks so much for you openness...so nice to be let inside. i love the attitude here...but, seriously great! thanks for the post!
11/30/2012
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