Are you a public player?

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Are you a public player?

Tart Tart
Do you like to attend BDSM play parties, or are you more of a private player?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Public player
Pixel , Diabolical Kitty , Vanessa Weiss , Sir , G.L. Morrison , carenautilus , geekkink , KrissyNovacaine , Kenneth Fort , MistressDandelion
10
Private player
Redboxbaby , Pixel , Diabolical Kitty , married with children , Ms. Spice , Vanessa Weiss , CoffeeCup , ily , Taylor , DeliciousSurprise , cec578 , toxie m , The Curious Couple , Sir , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , G.L. Morrison , Ryuson , Alyxx , Princess-Kayla ♥ , IrishLassie , Ava5 , MilyxXxD , Sexyladybugg , malantha , Alyona , Stagger13 , unfulfilled , Beaners , MistressDandelion , MissCandyland , Living Doll
31
Total votes: 41 (35 voters)
Poll is closed
08/12/2011
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Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
My husband and I have never done anything like this; although, we have talked about wanting to go to a club and just watch (when we are traveling). It sounds good in theory, but I don't know that we'd ever actually do it. Nothing like that exists where we live. The town is so small, I would not want to attend anything locally anyway.
08/12/2011
Pixel Pixel
I like both options, both as a top and as a bottom. Public scenes have an entirely different feel to them than private ones, and there are a few types of play (heavier blood play and a few others) that I am not comfortable indulging in public.
08/12/2011
Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I like both options. I like playing in public non-sexually and in private sexually and non-sexually.
08/12/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i would love to play public but for the time being, it's a private thing. it's still fun though
08/13/2011
Vanessa Weiss Vanessa Weiss
they both have their advantages.
08/13/2011
CoffeeCup CoffeeCup
I'm just not an exhibitionist to begin with, plus I've never found a bdsm/kink community I'm even remotely comfortable with.
08/13/2011
Antipova Antipova
I've only ever done private (or, if with multiple people, in a private/home setting) play. If I had a willing partner I'd be up for exploring public settings, but it's not something I would go to alone. At least at this point in my life.
08/13/2011
Sir Sir
Prefer privately playing. Much more prefer that. I do not like the confines of public playing because I'm very...limited in that respect.
08/14/2011
Alyxx Alyxx
I would like to do some public play, mostly due to my exhibitionist nature.
08/15/2011
Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
We've never attended any public event.
I think I'd be too shy to attend one. We're more private about it.
08/17/2011
NaturalWoman NaturalWoman
We have never been to a public type event but both are interested in it and want to.
08/17/2011
IrishLassie IrishLassie
My husband and I have never been to a play party. We are fairly new at this. I like and would rather be private. Im pretty sure we are going to one anytime soon. There also isn't a lot of public parties where I live anyways.
08/19/2011
carenautilus carenautilus
I find public play parties are great! Not just for playing (though that is fun), but also for socializing and learning.
08/20/2011
MilyxXxD MilyxXxD
private
10/07/2012
Sexyladybugg Sexyladybugg
Quote:
Originally posted by Tart
Do you like to attend BDSM play parties, or are you more of a private player?
im shy
10/08/2012
Alyona Alyona
Private player
10/08/2012
Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Tart
Do you like to attend BDSM play parties, or are you more of a private player?
Private and not interested in the public thing.
10/09/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm a light private player
10/09/2012
Beaners Beaners
I've never been to a party, but judging on my current behaviors, I would probably be more of a private player. Maybe a light public player, to appease my boyfriend.
10/09/2012
Happenstance Happenstance
I am extremely shy. I would even say I have social anxiety. But I'm going to my first kink party at the end of this month. We'll see how it goes.
10/10/2012
MissCandyland MissCandyland
I'm extremely shy and modest in public.
10/10/2012
Living Doll Living Doll
I like to keep it private.
10/14/2012
Total posts: 23
Unique posters: 23