Changing sides and needing advice

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Changing sides and needing advice

Phantom2291 Phantom2291
I'm usually dom, but my girlfriend wants to try being more dominant, and mentioned something about penetrating me. I've done a lot of mental prep, but now I need advice: What should we use to start this on me? And I made the rule that if something goes in my ass, she'll have to have something go up hers too. What would be a good anal starter?
08/05/2012
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- Kira - - Kira -
A few things. One, pegging doesn't need to be domination. My husband and I are M/s with him as the dominant partner. When I peg him, I may be topping, but I'm never dominating him.

Have you ever done any anal play before? If not, start with your fingers if possible. That's a good warm up before going to toys. When we started pegging we bough the Silk Medium and Acute. While neither are really "ideal" for using in the long term (Medium is kinda floppy and the Acute doesn't have enough length), they worked great as an introduction to pegging toys.
08/05/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
Start with fingers, then work your way up in size till you reach the size you want. I would recommend something around the 1 to 1.25 inch mark to start. Then if that is enough you could try a larger dildo.
08/05/2012
Ganconagh Ganconagh
Here is how our progression went: her finger, fingers, butt plug kit (s,m,l..but large wasn't very big), RocksOff Naughty Boy, RocksOff Big Boy, Doc Johnson vac u lock harness with 6" then 8". Now she has a wide variety of toys for "back there."

At every step, lube, lube and more lube.
08/05/2012
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