Do you ever feel "silly" or "weird" when you're in the moment?

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Do you ever feel "silly" or "weird" when you're in the moment?

PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Not often, but sometimes.
05/11/2012
AnnMorette AnnMorette
I love being submissive but so often even in my head I think how weird. That can make me aloof but for me it’s a learning process. What I am comfortable with now rendered me terrified in the beginning.
05/11/2012
Ghost Ghost
Sometimes the best things to do is laugh. Doesn't always have to be so serious. Specially if things are getting real serious, might need to take it down a notch.
05/21/2012
cryinglightning86 cryinglightning86
I occasionally feel silly, but my partner and I just laugh it off and move on if something silly happens. We've gotten to the point where we usually don't feel silly in bringing things up to each other in conversation that we want to try, but that's mostly because we've been together for a while. Might be different in a new relationship.
05/31/2012
comatose-kitty comatose-kitty
never done it, but i imagine i would start laughing
05/31/2012
Sinfully Sinfully
Yea, sometimes.
05/31/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
Yes, but I don't mind sex being silly sometimes.
06/25/2012
Chami Chami
im very open with my man but sometimes i get so nervous and shy its annoying for me really
06/25/2012
KRD KRD
Sometimes! I tend to giggle
06/26/2012
Schmidyslave Schmidyslave
Yeah but its rare!
06/26/2012
lecanis lecanis
It happens! It's always like that for me a little with a new partner even though I've been doing BDSM type things for a long time. It just comes down to finding the things you enjoy and being willing to laugh at yourself along the way.
06/26/2012
Badass Badass
I never really feel silly about it..
06/26/2012
LAndJ LAndJ
Once and a while, I feel silly introducing something. I guess I'm more afraid of what he'll think.
06/26/2012
JennSenn JennSenn
Sometimes.
06/26/2012
Fungirl277 Fungirl277
Yeah, sometimes
06/26/2012
butts butts
At the beginning of our relationship things got "silly" easier, now we're so comfortable with each other that we rarely feel weird doing even very kinky acts.
06/26/2012
Lavendar Lavendar
Me and my boyfriend used to have the same issue, except I would feel shy and laugh when trying to dominate him. If you are completely comfortable with your partner you can just brush it off and try again. Eventually we got to where we wanted and still look back at the awkward moments and laugh. Just go with it even if you are shy and eventually you guys will get there too!
06/26/2012
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
Quote:
Originally posted by Greenleaf
Yep! But sex can be silly, and I'm sort of an awkward penguin anyways. I just try to run with it.
Exactly!
06/26/2012
CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
yeah, sometimes
06/27/2012
Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
If I'm in the moment, there's no time or room for feeling silly for me.
06/27/2012
Faeya Faeya
Sometimes when Dragon calls me names, I try not to laugh because it just is so out of the normal. Also, I tend to laugh from pain instead of cry so that can get awkward when I'm getting a good beating
07/02/2012
hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
The biggest problem I've found with keeping in the proper headspace is that I have four cats, two of whom are exceptionally needy, one of whom is exceptionally goofy and playful, and one of whom is very grumpy and crotchety. So I'll be into a scene, and one cat will start bawling like a baby, or the goofy cat will leap at the doorknob and come down on the grumpy cat's head and start a fight.

It's pretty much impossible not to laugh when the cats start acting up.
07/02/2012
pirkit pirkit
I know I can feel awkward at times.
07/02/2012
pirata pirata
Quote:
Originally posted by Nazaress
I want to get into some light BDSM with my boyfriend and maybe further than that. My biggest problem is getting him interested and in the moment. He's admitted to sometimes feeling a little silly and/or weird when he's talking dirty or being ...
I feel silly the second i go to open my mouth lol try telling him not to think, just say it as soon as he thinks it. it helps me to do it that way at least
07/02/2012
Boyqueen Boyqueen
I think that it's because I'm new to a lot of it. But it should be kept in mind that things don't have to be serious.
07/06/2012
PeachCandy PeachCandy
I'm a giggler
07/06/2012
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Never feel silly, but we are always having fun!
01/10/2013
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Yes, rarely. It is only at first though I can really yell some naughty stuff when we really start going at it really hard I tell him how it feels and how to fuck me hard.
01/10/2013
FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
never
01/10/2013
ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
At first but not now
01/10/2013
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