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tammyandy69 tammyandy69
Is fire play really a BDSM thing? And would you ever try it?
03/14/2011
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DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
Yes, fireplay is a very real element of some people's BDSM play.

For those who've never heard the term, it refers to a kind of edge play involving the use of fire in play which often involves lighting fires on the skin of the submissive/bottom. There are a few different techniques that can be used, like cupping, or bouncing.


I would consider it, but I'm not yet in a place where I would be comfortable with it.



It should NEVER, EVER, EVER be attempted by anyone but an experienced Top. Engaging in fireplay means you are setting a human being on fire. It is NOT a joke, it is not a game. It is serious shit.
03/14/2011
Miss Naughty Kitty Miss Naughty Kitty
Quote:
Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
Yes, fireplay is a very real element of some people's BDSM play.

For those who've never heard the term, it refers to a kind of edge play involving the use of fire in play which often involves lighting fires on the skin of the ...
sounds crazy i don't think i really have heard of it
03/14/2011
Miss Madeline Miss Madeline
I regularly set people on fire at play parties. I adore fire play.
03/15/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
Yes, fireplay is a very real element of some people's BDSM play.

For those who've never heard the term, it refers to a kind of edge play involving the use of fire in play which often involves lighting fires on the skin of the ...
Sounds intense.
03/20/2011
Enchantedkitty Enchantedkitty
That sounds insane. not sure i could do that
04/02/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
I have a ridiculous fear of fire. This would be past my limits. I could never trust anyone that much.
04/03/2011
queertastic queertastic
Yes, fire play is a part of BDSM. My girlfriend is interested in fire play...we haven't tried it, however, we have tried wax play. =)
04/03/2011
k3 k3
Yes, yes, yes, yes, and yes! (I know, there was only two questions--was my point. ;P) I have had one fairly mild experience with fireplay, and it was rather thrilling, and I would definitely like to explore it further!
04/28/2011
Darkness Withinus Darkness Withinus
Quote:
Originally posted by tammyandy69
Is fire play really a BDSM thing? And would you ever try it?
As you know yes it is a real think and many people do engage in it. To add my two cents the most interesting way I have seen it done is with a Violet Wand and alcohol.
05/14/2011
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
I would need to really trust the top and know they had experience with this. Fire play is something I may dabble it, but it would never be a weekly element of my BDSM play.
05/17/2011
shentel shentel
I have never heard of fire play
05/17/2011
Pixel Pixel
Fire play is awesome! I was introduced to it a few months back by an awesome Dom, and adore it. He also did fire cupping on my back, which you can see here (pic is not safe for work due to bare back/butt). I am a sensation slut, so cupping makes me really happy. It's an intense feeling without slipping over into pain. -purrs-
05/17/2011
lunapixie lunapixie
Fire play is something that I think would be interesting to try if I really trusted the top.
05/18/2011
CAKES CAKES
I like pain, but that sounds too painful!
05/18/2011
Zombie Ghost Zombie Ghost
I can see the news paper headlines...
06/01/2011
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
Not for me
06/01/2011
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
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Originally posted by Zombie Ghost
I can see the news paper headlines...
Why? Fire play is safe and taught widely in the BDSM community. There are proper ways to do fire play and it isn't what you're probably thinking. Fire play involves using a lighter (or candle), isopropyl alcohol (so that it doesn't burn too hot), and the flame is extinguished by the hand as soon as it makes contact with the skin. Yes, it's dangerous, but everything is dangerous until you learn how to properly do it. People have been safely doing fire play for years.
06/01/2011
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by CAKES
I like pain, but that sounds too painful!
It's actually not too painful. It's a wonderful sensation (like a hot stone massage) and it's seriously intoxicating
06/01/2011
big b big b
to much hair
06/01/2011
G.L. Morrison G.L. Morrison
If you're doing fireplay correctly, the person isn't burning at all. Just the alcohol (or other accelerant). The activity isn't dangerous (done right) but like many BDSM activities the tools themselves are. Fire is dangerous. It should be treated respectfully and skillfully. I love fireplay.
06/22/2011
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Sounds dangerous, but intriguing...
11/29/2011
Roshandalaquanda Roshandalaquanda
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Originally posted by tammyandy69
Is fire play really a BDSM thing? And would you ever try it?
that sounds awful..
02/28/2013
BloodHound BloodHound
Quote:
Originally posted by tammyandy69
Is fire play really a BDSM thing? And would you ever try it?
I set people on fire all the time. I love it!
02/28/2013
SMichelle SMichelle
Quote:
Originally posted by G.L. Morrison
If you're doing fireplay correctly, the person isn't burning at all. Just the alcohol (or other accelerant). The activity isn't dangerous (done right) but like many BDSM activities the tools themselves are. Fire is dangerous. It should be ...
I have a friend who used to "set his hand on fire"... it was absolutely terrifying to watch, but he never got burnt.

As for fireplay in BDSM... no, it's nothing I ever want to try... but to each their own.
02/28/2013
His scarlett His scarlett
It is something that really intrigues me, but we have never tried it.
03/03/2013
smlove smlove
Quote:
Originally posted by tammyandy69
Is fire play really a BDSM thing? And would you ever try it?
If you just like to swing fire poi or fire fans, that's not necessarily kinky. if you like fire put against your body in some fashion, yeah, that's kinky.
I would try a little bit of it, but I really am a marshmallow when it comes to pain.
03/04/2013
Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
Yes, and yes. He loves to do fire play on me, and it's quite pleasurable.
03/05/2013
lolisadist lolisadist
Personally it's not my thing, fire just seems like you have less control over things
03/10/2013
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Unique posters: 28