Hair Pulling Help Please

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Hair Pulling Help Please

Bubba29 Bubba29
My wife says she would like if I pulled her hair at the right time. The question is when should I do this? How and when do you like it done to you? Thx in advance.
01/14/2013
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Ansley Ansley
I think you should be asking your wife this. For me the right time is every once in a blue moon, it better only be from the side and it better not be too hard.
01/14/2013
Gdom Gdom
Stormy has the right idea; if anyone knows the answer to your question, it's your wife. That said, if you don't want to talk to her about it directly or she won't answer directly, try pulling her hair lightly at some point while you're having sex. If her behavior, words, and sounds are encouraging, keep going; if not, stop (obviously).

If you're combining this with any sort of power exchange play and you're topping, I've found that grabbing the bottom's hair and forcing them to look you in the eyes (or, I suppose, to avert their eyes, depending on your preferences) while you give them an order can be particularly effective. The one other great opportunity for hair-grabbing that comes to mind is during doggy style sex; grabbing her hair and pulling her head back (slightly and do it slowly; you don't want to pull her hair out or give her whiplash) can be really hot for both parties involved.
01/21/2013
novanilla novanilla
Yeah you gotta ask your wife about this. For me it's never cause it really hurts when my hair is pulled and my hair falls out easily.
01/21/2013
BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Huge fan of hair pulling just ease into it hun ask her also when it starts to get really intense rough type of sex that's prob when she wants it but sure if you ask she will answer this for you
01/21/2013
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Make sure you have a clear idea of when to pull, see above about talking. For the how, I'd recommend pulling closer to the scalp, it tends to give a more firm sensation without a lot of pain
01/21/2013
bog bog
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Originally posted by Bubba29
My wife says she would like if I pulled her hair at the right time. The question is when should I do this? How and when do you like it done to you? Thx in advance.
Everyone is different! I prefer having my hair pulled very close to my scalp, as opposed to at the ends, with the knuckles resting against the skull, fingers snarled around the roots, and then a gentle lean of the hand with the knuckles always touching the skull. Specific? Yes, and your wife's desires may be as specific as mine are. So go ask her!
01/23/2013
misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by Bubba29
My wife says she would like if I pulled her hair at the right time. The question is when should I do this? How and when do you like it done to you? Thx in advance.
as she starts to orgasm, run your fingers through her hair up the back of her head, tighten between your fingers and pull down. anchor, and let her pull her own hair however hard she wants. give her the ability to lessen or tighten as she bears down against her ograsm.

just a thought.
01/29/2013
A Good Girl A Good Girl
I agree with others in that it needs to be close to the scalp, the key here is to distribute the pain. My partners need to grab a larger handful in the back of my head, lower than where my ear it. It's about controlling the direction that my face is pointing. It also needs to go with something, i.e. grab a big handful of hair and turn her head so that you can whisper in her ear or kiss her or what have you.
02/04/2013
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